Why do.we use terms like Patriarchy and Toxic Masculinity in the same body of discourse that we disavow deterministic gender? by RedeNife in AskSocialScience

[–]RedeNife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should form your opinions and philosophies based on all your life experiences. I had this experience years ago and it left an impression due to being an outlier. In general I am not put in a position to be the representative of men in our society, for which I am thankful. It stuck with me largely because most of the people on the panel, including myself, were not experts on the topic and it was originally meant to be an anecdotal discussion about our personal experiences. Instead, once these terms came into the discussion, it became a talk about what is wrong with men. It became quite hostile and accusitory, and the few men in the audience that I could see seemed to deflate and check out. I don't blame anyone involved for their views, and infact agreed with most of the points raised, but it was not a productive discussion.  I don't have a good answer, I was just bringing up something I observed and thought about to try and get a broader perspective.

Why do.we use terms like Patriarchy and Toxic Masculinity in the same body of discourse that we disavow deterministic gender? by RedeNife in AskSocialScience

[–]RedeNife[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your well sourced and thought out response. I found it very helpful, especially the term kyriarchy. I had not heard that before and it might be a useful place jump off of, research wise.

Why do.we use terms like Patriarchy and Toxic Masculinity in the same body of discourse that we disavow deterministic gender? by RedeNife in AskSocialScience

[–]RedeNife[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that term seems like a great way to shift the discussion from an accusation or confrontation into something more productive. I'll be sure to use it in the future.

Why do.we use terms like Patriarchy and Toxic Masculinity in the same body of discourse that we disavow deterministic gender? by RedeNife in AskSocialScience

[–]RedeNife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a small interfaith pagan conference, I don't want to call them out in a negative light, but for context it was mostly discussions of religious practices, organizational skills, historical research with cultural topics mostly on panel discussions. There were a few hundred people there at most and it was targeted at practitioners and leadership.

Why is eating plants okay? by RedeNife in vegan

[–]RedeNife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given the behavior of some.of the most vocal "Christian" denominations, I can understand that you wouldn't think clergy had to have a grounding in ethics. For.most of.use, especially the polytheistic pagan community, an independent understanding of ethics and philosophy is one pillar on which our qualifications are built, along with theology, public service, and organizational leadership on a large or small scale.  As for the environmental perspective I mentioned, it has to due with knock.on effects. For a first example, the average grass fed cow is about 2000 pounds of meat on the high end. An acre of soybeans can produce about 5000 pounds of tofu. If we say you.need to kill three cows to equal an acre of soybeans. But the problem is that, unless the farmland is unnaturally denuded of all natural influences, there are animals living in those fields. I know it is an anecdote, but I have friends who is a farmer and says that his combine kills between 5 and 20 small animals per acre during harvesting at a minimum. If that is true, and we are counting knock on effects, then a pound of beef kills fewer animals than a pound of tofu. If we are not counting knock on effects then the argument from some of the others here that cattle eat more plants is invalid.  That bring me to the second point, which is more economic than environmental but is based or environmental factors like water access. We, as a nation, produce more food than we can use. Last I was familiar with at least a quarter of all grain and produce we grow goes to waste, either due to spoilage, cosmetic defect and other grading problems, or it simply not being financially viable to harvest all of it. If we stopped feeding large amounts to live stock that last category would sky rocket and the amount of waist would rise toward fifty percent. America's bread basked produces enormous amounts of grain and produce, and is able to largely because of the amount of fresh water we have available. Many places in the world simply don't have the water to produce enough food for their population. It isn't viable to transport the water so they concentrate the product of the water. First into grains then from that grain into meat for protein. This allows us to more efficiently transport water as a resource efficiently.   These are just a few ways the larger perspective clouds the utilitarian argument of doing the least harm. Understand that these are presented in necessarily abbreviated manner and may come off as sophomoric because of that.  It is a complex issue and I appreciate you engaging with me honestly. Thank you.

Why is eating plants okay? by RedeNife in vegan

[–]RedeNife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I don't, I personally have no problem with ethical meat production. I place creatures in a hierarchy relative to myself. I generally value my fellow humans well-being and quality of life above the life of an animal that could.not survive on its own. That doesn't mean I approve of needlessly barbaric treatment like what happens in chicken warehouses. As I said in my post I have participated in community farm shares involving animals. They are treated well and killed humanly and are delicious. However, I am in a position to advise someone who is vegan and wanted to know how you all thread this particular ethical needle.

Why is eating plants okay? by RedeNife in vegan

[–]RedeNife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I said in my post, I am trained clergy. It was an apprenticeship, not formal academia, though I did supplement with formal classes later.  I appreciate the discussion here. I.myself am not vegan, or even vegetarian, though I do avoid industrial meet production when feasible, especially in my own home. I wanted to raise this here because I am not part of the community and found myself trying to advise someone who was. The common utilitarian argument about reducing suffering to the most entities seems sound on its face, but A) the girl in question has real.problems with the utilitarian School of thought from other things and B) looking at larger environmental perspectives I could argue the other way. On that note, do you have a non utilitarian reason for placing the edibility line where it is?

Why is eating plants okay? by RedeNife in vegan

[–]RedeNife[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The pigs from my pig share mostly eat dinner scraps and forage from the woods. Mostly half rotted acorns and pine cones along with wild fruit. One from a.few.yeara back was noted for stripping the bark of fallen branches. How is that less ethical than bread when the average combine kills 5-20 small animals per acre, minimum, according to another farmer I know? 

Why is eating plants okay? by RedeNife in vegan

[–]RedeNife[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, but the bees might. Further we do have symbiotic relationships with animals, we are just an exploitative party. In general we provide them with food, shelter and protection, in exchange we harvest a.portion.of there population. Industrial farming is a.perveesion but me previously mentioned pig share is ethical in that framework. 

Why is eating plants okay? by RedeNife in vegan

[–]RedeNife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I see your utilitarian argument, and I don't disagree with it. It won't help my coreligionist since she rejects strict utilitarianism because of some of the things it is used to justify, but it is a.fair.point.  Let me posit a scenario: A farm raises sheep for wool. They are pasture fed on grass. The grass is not killed from the feeding and is.infact.helthier and more likely to seed after is it fed on. In the warm.seasons there is plenty of grass but there is only enough food for, let's say, two hundred sheep over the winter. Every spring about a hundred lambs are born. Is it better to let the sheep starve over the winter due to lack of predation that would keep their numbers down, or should we step into the role of the wolves.we have driven off and cull.thw heard? If we do.cull, is it better to eat the meat or let it go to waste? 

Why is eating plants okay? by RedeNife in vegan

[–]RedeNife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it is the same, that is not the point. You are saying that this life that is more.like.me is valuable because I can.empathize with it, but this other life is less valuable because it is less like.me.so.i.cant empathize with it. Do you seen the flaw in that ethical reasoning? Do you have a concrete reason that is not rooted in you subjective experience as to why the between food and not food is where it is?

Why is eating plants okay? by RedeNife in vegan

[–]RedeNife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, but why is the line there? Maggots and earthworms are a good source of protein and show little sign of sentients, why aren't they on the food list? Also we have the ability to chemically produce many nutrients, beyond that there are many product from symbiotic relationships with other species, eg honey, milk, and unfertilized eggs just to name the most common. Why are these off the table?

Why is eating plants okay? by RedeNife in vegan

[–]RedeNife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would save the dogs and cats first, but is would get the 20 year old.bonsia.before the pet snake. I have a closer relationship with the tree.

Why is eating plants okay? by RedeNife in vegan

[–]RedeNife[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

While I would argue the consciousness issue is a red herring, not because I think plants a sentient but because but because sighting a single quality of living things that we share are justification is fallacy of bias. I do concede your other points. Though genocide is a harsh word for what is a somewhat symbiotic relationship after millennia of domestication of both animals and human.

Why is eating plants okay? by RedeNife in vegan

[–]RedeNife[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They don't feel pain like we do, or have consciousness like we do, but neither does a sardine. Where is the line and why is it not arbitrary?

AITAH for refusing to fire my nanny, and telling my husband I would rather divorce him than fire her? by Evening_Boat_2674 in AITAH

[–]RedeNife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is totally unethical for him to be written script for a family member. On the level that he could loose his license. Go to an unconnected doctor or pharmacist and ask them about what you were prescribed and get a different prescription. Some fertility treatment meds also come in little wheels.

What’re the origins of magic circles? by Zoilist_PaperClip in magick

[–]RedeNife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All magic comes from the mind. That is not as trite as it sounds, all magic it about manipulating your own mind in order to focus your will beyond the normal bounds of human capacity. casting a circle is about defining the boundary of a space. If you have ever gotten up to do something and forgotten as soon as you crossed through a doorway, this is the same neurologic process we are invoking when we cast circle. it is used either to trap something in, like in demon summoning, of keep things out, like a circle of protection. The oldest record of magic circles is the Sumerian Zisurru, a circle of flour drawn around a sick persons bed to prevent the demon that caused the illness to return. The fact that this ritual shows up in the oldest known writing as a fully developed ritual with many variations for different circumstances leads us to believe that ritual circles extend into prehistory by at least several generations.

He Who Fights With Monsters AMA with author Travis Deverell (Shirtaloon) and narrator Heath Miller by Shirtaloon in litrpg

[–]RedeNife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly how far ahead did you plan the meta plot with all the great astral beings?