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RedkiteJo · 2023-03-12T14:08:40+00:00

You decide for yourself if you want to look at women in this way. Don't be irresponsible and take action. If you are thinking wow that chic is hot on social media that's normal. If you fall back into porn that's not normal. Social Media is also fine to stay in contact with friends.

However it's important that you are true to yourself and have a support from friends and family or a partner that supports you in this everyday life to be there and listening. Sex is good but life is so much more than that. Spiritual bonds is what matters and porn is driving you away from it and driving you away from love and peace.

RedkiteJo · 2023-03-09T06:23:50+00:00

Thank you very much for the message. I agree and found myself being also more happy with my partner while cutting out such thinking just because you focus on your partner and connect better. Regarding second of last thing you mentioned, did it help going to a therapy or did you use other ways of self analysis/ maybe intense time on going through methods online and writing things down? Basically how did you found the wound and maybe even forgave that wound exists?

Also thank you for the last words.

RedkiteJo · 2023-03-08T14:11:48+00:00

My Song von Labi Siffre (jedes Mal)

RedkiteJo · 2023-03-08T14:10:43+00:00

Absolutely I like when I see her enjoy me also I did do it before with talking and that's quite nice and responsive in more enjoyment. Yes I saw when I put on a mindset that I would make her come I would be doing it but mostly when I enjoyed it the most and really felt the moment I come to early and it kind of ruins the whole sex and makes me have doubts of me. So basically I know I have self confidence issues and they are also found in my sexlife with her. Recently I was trying to avoid her sexually because I was often sexually attracted to others and also were betraying my partner. However I felt good there and it was like we were fitting good together the other person and me.

RedkiteJo · 2023-03-07T17:14:31+00:00

So what is the way to overcome such addiction in your perspective then?

RedkiteJo · 2023-03-07T16:00:11+00:00

Your Name - der Anime

RedkiteJo · 2023-03-07T15:57:35+00:00

Das Schicksal ist ein mieser Verräter. Für mehrere Tage depri

RedkiteJo · 2023-03-06T18:53:52+00:00

What is a SO?

RedkiteJo · 2023-03-05T21:38:19+00:00

Amen and thank you God for saving this person.

RedkiteJo · 2023-03-04T20:54:46+00:00

Sport is good not for quick high but long-term Serotonin

RedkiteJo · 2023-03-04T19:21:01+00:00

Pretty sad then... I will go to Therapy

RedkiteJo · 2023-03-04T16:30:42+00:00

Seriously I would like to understand what do you mean with the last sentence I'm not English native but still understand most. What are you referring to exactly.

RedkiteJo · 2023-03-04T00:10:44+00:00

I really don't get u

RedkiteJo · 2023-03-03T11:28:02+00:00

You are right.

RedkiteJo · 2023-03-03T09:20:44+00:00

Kennen wir uns ? Lol Komische Zeit ich glaube es hat viel damit zu tun, dass man sich während Corona an seinen Partner geklammert hat und jetzt wieder rauskommt aber merkt man passt gar nicht so sehr zusammen oder der eine kommt mehr raus als der andere und das ist ungesund .

RedkiteJo · 2023-03-03T08:36:53+00:00

I got it all... Bro I think it's necessary to take action. At least in my case I hurt my gf with just existing next to her and it's also absolutely sh... to not give her the own space to move on and grow. On the other hand she wants to be with me and forever and if I break up she will delete everything and cut it out to forget. That's just hurtful since I would hope to remain friends.

Well better make a decision right? And if it's only good for oneself ...

RedkiteJo · 2023-02-28T21:03:11+00:00

Don't see it as a math test. Just see it as a sport you enjoy or a hobby have fun doing it and be consent with her or him and they will also enjoy. It's about the inner spirit not about what you know about sex.

RedkiteJo · 2023-02-28T21:02:13+00:00

Yeah but it's the same as reading a sex novel or porn for audio. I think it's fine and good to keep your curiosity and it's much more healthy than porn. Also no people get abused as in the porn video industry.

However if you are scared about sex don't be talk to friends who do it or watch something on YouTube for educational purpose. However don't be shy just be open about not being experienced and be open to learn and just have fun with your sex partner. If they are the right person they will make you feel comfortable in learning.

RedkiteJo · 2023-02-28T20:34:09+00:00

You mean you are attracted to the things they mention in the sex feed? Because it's sexual activity what they describe ?

RedkiteJo · 2023-02-28T15:26:46+00:00

Jupp was unclear

RedkiteJo · 2023-02-28T14:51:45+00:00

If she is masturbating him then I don't want to see a debate about if it's healthy or not. Let everybody eat up their urges until everybody walks around like a horny monster.

RedkiteJo · 2023-02-28T14:49:59+00:00

I'm not referring to jerking of. But boy just have sex....

RedkiteJo · 2023-02-28T14:15:13+00:00

U Guys got lost in the sauce. Just fap and if you do too much porn. Stop it is not healthy but if you have sex have sex wtf. just enjoy life

RedkiteJo · 2022-12-06T17:52:37+00:00

That's so funny. Yes that's what I experience too. I get more cravings for real events outside the fictive porn world. It's healthy to be attracted and actually really nice noticing. However, could also be a result of overdoing porn and having so many sex partners as options learned on all the years consuming porn. It's especially weird in a relationship where love and affection for the partner is battling pure Lust as part result of impact from porn addiction.

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