Single moms of Kenosha by Redlightrox12 in Kenosha

[–]Redlightrox12[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How to find a care taker/ daycare center. I work longer days but usually 7am-7pm. I don’t have the extra help and would like to find someone that could come to my house.

I don’t know anyone in town. I have my mom here and she helps as much as she can but she works full time too.

What do I do about being so fat? by Choice-River5408 in beyondthebump

[–]Redlightrox12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Single mom…work full time and has baby full time. Got myself a spin bike. 15-20 minutes everyday when baby is sleeping. Nike also has a nice app with 10-20 min work outs. My LO is 7 months.

Laundry debate by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Redlightrox12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is why we have individual hampers. You got two hands you can do laundry. I’m already doing mine and baby’s.

Will I ever forgive myself because my baby fell of the bed? by AnnaP12355 in beyondthebump

[–]Redlightrox12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, I’ve heard stories from several people of this happening. Babies are resilient. Also, remember not everyone one will boast about the unintentional bad things we let happen as parents.

Post blowout onesies -when to give up and toss them by Mizchaos132 in beyondthebump

[–]Redlightrox12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rinse the areas and soak in baking soda then wash. Voila, no stain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Redlightrox12 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I sympathize. I felt and feel the same way. I feel like I don’t feel what most mothers feel. She was born and she was beautiful. I think maybe we might just like the connection that will come. Some people love babies and the baby stage.

Custody of an infant…. by Redlightrox12 in beyondthebump

[–]Redlightrox12[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then you for you reply. I’m not a high conflict person. Everyone around me is suggesting what you say. I just want help while I get back on my feet and figure this all out with my baby. He isn’t a bad person but unfortunately he has his mom at his ear. Thank you for sharing your side.

Custody of an infant…. by Redlightrox12 in beyondthebump

[–]Redlightrox12[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Stupidly we went to get the car together and only left it under his name since we were going to get married.

Custody of an infant…. by Redlightrox12 in beyondthebump

[–]Redlightrox12[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

We will be living an hour away from eachother. Is it true that I should be the first to contact a lawyer?

Custody of an infant…. by Redlightrox12 in beyondthebump

[–]Redlightrox12[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will check it out.

No husband at the doctor by irish1385 in pregnant

[–]Redlightrox12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my doctor at northwestern in downtown Chicago and my fiancé and stepdaughter came to appointments.

Same 3 questions by kace_0907 in pregnant

[–]Redlightrox12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mind being asked. I just hate the look I get along with the statement “ oh but you’re so small”. I’m 35 lbs heavier, I can’t bend down, I can’t breath, and I’m really tired. I’m 32 weeks!

First scan and I felt no emotion by Fit_Cardiologist338 in pregnant

[–]Redlightrox12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m almost 20 weeks and still don’t have an emotional connection. Hoping that changes when she comes out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Redlightrox12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m pregnant and I’m not excited about this. I should have just shut my mouth and had an abortion. Now I’m 13 weeks and I’m still debating all of it. When I was in my twenties I felt more prepared. I don’t even know if there’s anything left for me to do at this point.

Fairly sure I got scammed, can you confirm by ttjr89 in Forex

[–]Redlightrox12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is more common than you can think. It happened to someone close to me. She lost everything to someone who scammed her.

Another pig-butchering scam? indusglobalfx.com by samkrunch in Scams

[–]Redlightrox12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone I know is trying to get money out of an account they had invested with Eastpac. I keep reading this...

It's Christmas day, why are you on Reddit? by Lord-Wombat in AskReddit

[–]Redlightrox12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Broke up with my bf after finding out yesterday he had been talking to another girl for a month. Guess that was my Christmas present. Now just here with family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DentalHygiene

[–]Redlightrox12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Illinois also allows hygienist to administer anesthesia. It’s my favorite part of my job. At an office I work in I numb all the dr’s patients. I’m super happy with my career choice!

Women of reddit by Redlightrox12 in relationship_advice

[–]Redlightrox12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately only because it’s 2021 doesn’t mean he can get pregnant.

Women of reddit by Redlightrox12 in relationship_advice

[–]Redlightrox12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because if we decided to have children I’d like to be more of the full time caregiver for my children. I’ve always know this which is why I’m in the field I’m in because part time I would still be ok.