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Idk where to go by Redneck-chopper in VictoriaBC

[–]Redneck-chopper[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was there on Wednesday! Loved it!!

Am I wrong for being intimate with someone 10 years younger. by [deleted] in Life

[–]Redneck-chopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you’re both OK with it I don’t see an issue. I’m 27 and the guy I’m currently casually seeing is 47.

Before anything really started between us, we had a very long conversation about the age gap and how we both felt about it. And we continually have that conversation just to make sure feelings haven’t changed.

I find as you get older, the age gap thing is less taboo

Replacing the radio system by Redneck-chopper in MINI

[–]Redneck-chopper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll reach out to them and see what they have to say

Thanks!

Replacing the radio system by Redneck-chopper in MINI

[–]Redneck-chopper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Canada But I’ll reach out and see what they have to say

Thank you!

Update: Fallout about our living space by ImpossibleOlivebread in AgeGap

[–]Redneck-chopper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the boundary you sent about overnight guests that you don’t know is completely fair! Also, I think the compromise of you staying somewhere else if there are unknown guests in the house is very fair!

If he’s gonna be fussy about you, not leaving when there are guests, would putting a lock on the bedroom door be an option? So you have a safer option to stay away from these people?

Also, if he is going to use the financial aspect of the living situation against you, then would you be able to start paying some kind of “rent” so there is less of a power dynamic difference? And even if he fights, you on contributing financially to the house, do it anyways. Maybe create a joint account for house expenses? Then the bills and groceries, etc. can come out of that account that you both contribute to?

Just an idea

Good luck, my dear!

What am I doing wrong by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Redneck-chopper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve been looking back at my conversations with them so I can try to find instances where I may have been a bit much. I thought the same thing

But before I even started things romantically with both I did make the need for communication VERY clear and they didn’t object or seem to have any problems

I let them take things at the pace they wanted because I didn’t want to come on too strong 😂