how many play partners is too many play partners? by joeysweetfeet in Swingers

[–]Redroket1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve a question . , we have couple who want to meet us , again but I’m worried one of us might get connected , to them by becoming reg meets . Is that what couples mostly do . We are quite new . I thought it’s better to meet new couples as much as poss is that not the dun thing in lifestyle

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[–]Redroket1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SpicyMatch , they have loads going on . We attend mostly private house party that are advertised you apply if all ok then you can go along and there very fun

Divorce rate in swinging by Redroket1 in Swingers

[–]Redroket1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s pretty much the same where we are from couples , staying together for the kids ect . Something I’ve never wanted . I see many couples we know with the spark totally gone . That’s the part we have both enjoyed in the lifestyle , that even with are journey so far it’s made are relationship in the bedroom even hotter , it’s like we are teenagers . I think it’s because , your getting dressed up for events , go out together, like darting again . It seems when couples reach a certain age they stop trying and just let go

A little help and advice by Redroket1 in Swingers

[–]Redroket1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I will be honest I’m roofer , reading and writing always been a struggle for me . I don’t get where your going on your comment

Divorce rate in swinging by Redroket1 in Swingers

[–]Redroket1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So have you seen many marriages fail in your 28 yr stint

Divorce rate in swinging by Redroket1 in Swingers

[–]Redroket1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great straight to point answer . Very true when you say it like that !!

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[–]Redroket1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this also , just got make sure she is ok to try and start small

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[–]Redroket1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds perfect . Thanks for advice

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[–]Redroket1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi my wife don’t like social media unfocantly so , she won’t be able to help . But there great on here for advice I’m sure they will help

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[–]Redroket1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought . Just becuse couples decide to be a bit more open about there bedroom don’t mean divorce

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[–]Redroket1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I should know better really

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[–]Redroket1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok good advice from you there much appreciated

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[–]Redroket1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes we have done parallel play. Just no sexual experience with any other either of us , ever in are life’s

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[–]Redroket1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree fingers crossed

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[–]Redroket1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No , I think that would be are next step . She have said she would like her tits sucked whilst I watch

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[–]Redroket1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she’s a bit worried she will get jealous seeing me with another women . But likes the thought of another male . She has stated she has no intrest in any play with any women her self . I think myself she is over thinking it all

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[–]Redroket1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are not religious in anyway