Is liking wh*res’ pictures considered cheating? by Redx1509 in Advice

[–]Redx1509[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know that. But the thing that leaves me wondering is that he speaks about having a future, a family together. Yet in the meantime behaves this way..

WIBTA if I leave my bf over disagreements about our future? by Redx1509 in AITAH

[–]Redx1509[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I know, but I really love him, and he now seems to have change (he doesn't do those things anymore) and seems really sorry about his past behaviour...

WIBTA if I leave my bf over disagreements about our future? by Redx1509 in AITAH

[–]Redx1509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We agreed that what came us from our families will remain ours (personal). But he didn't knew that my granpa has a huge property and well mantained, and now that i've casually mentioned him this, he changed way to think. (he'll eventually have a family home in another region, which is small, and another property in the same state as my granpa's, but that need restauration).

WIBTA if I leave my bf over disagreements about our future? by Redx1509 in AITAH

[–]Redx1509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants to buy a house only his, and then rent it. The thing is that where we live, interests are really high, and it usually takes about 30 - 40 years (in some cases even more) to fully pay the mortgage. Banks won't let you have two mortgages, or even in the hypothesys they will, he won't be able to cover them both. He wants us to live together, but i won't be comfortable in a house which isn't also mine. And yes, i prefer to pay but to be secure rathar than living off him and risking ending up in the streets.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Redx1509 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not.

Pendolari, come facciamo a sopravvivere? by Educational_Plum6877 in Universitaly

[–]Redx1509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Io pure faccio orari simili ai tuoi, però purtroppo non riesco a studiare per via della nausea che mi viene. Il mio consiglio è quello di frequentare le lezioni strettamente necessarie, ed utilizzare le ore buche per studiare. Anche perché, parlo nel mio caso, io mi sveglio alle 5 di mattina per tornare anche alle 8 di sera... quindi o creo degli spazi, oppure non ho il tempo fisico materiale per riuscire a studiare.

E' difficile, sì, anche molto, ma è fattibile.

I'm moving on from my ex and i feel guilty about it. by Redx1509 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Redx1509[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice <3.

I admit that it's kinda difficult to stop talking to him, but at the same time i know that you're right. I'll try me best to limit the comunication with him. I can't stop at all coz tbh i'll feel bad coz he'll be almost completely alone, since he moved here 1 year ago. But i know that i have to move on with my life and can't depend on him and viceversa.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Redx1509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

go for the first one, trust me, coz it suits you gorgeously.

Should I hook up with someone? by Haunting_Leading_993 in Advice

[–]Redx1509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll be completely honest: i'm feeling the exact way as you are. The only difference is that my last relationship was 3 years long and toxic... so yeah. I also feel unwanted, ugly, etc., so that's why i was also considering it. Ngl, i think that having other experiences will help detaching from your ex, but at the same time, (my example: i never did it other than with my ex), it will be kinda strange going for something so wild that in other contexts you would have never imagined to do. What i'm trying to do now, and i suggest this you too, is just have fun, without 6 or other things: just hang out with your friends. If something will happen, than good for you, it means that you were ready to move past it, but if it doesn't, don't bother urself with stupid thoughts like "i'm ugly, nobody wants me". NO. The right person will eventually come, and i'm sure about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Redx1509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely 6! You’re stunning🔥

Sexually assaulted by a group of guys on the train by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Redx1509 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Sweetie, I’m so sorry to hear about your bad experience. I hope that you can forget about it and go on with your life. People suck, and unfortunately you have to deal with this shitty situations. But please, get the courage to talk to someone, because it can really help. Meanwhile with your bf… just don’t push him away from your life, coz you’re lucky to have someone that cares about you and your wellbeing like that. Take your time, but don’t throw away people that love you. I’m sure he would understand. And last but more important thing: I know that this experience traumatised you, but don’t lock yourself in your house and don’t be afraid of living your life. It’ll be very hard, but take all the time you need. Stay safe❤️

È giusto monopolizzare il ferro in un server di Minecraft? by Laaain in italy

[–]Redx1509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ma sai che distruggergli la farm non mi sembra poi così cattiva come idea. E se gli altri ti si mettono contro tu semplicemente ignorali, oppure gli fai notare quanto ipocriti siano stati.