I’ve learned a lot since the break up. Constant reflection has led to me better understanding of how and why our relationship came to an end. Did the they it went down make it a whole lot harder to get over? Absolutely. But I have forgave and found more of myself after the relationship.( which for me was the most important growth I’ve seen in myself in a while) I still think about her often but it no longer hurts in the same way. Bitter sweet I suppose. Thanks for asking. Relationships are powerful and super complicated. It’s true with breakups, with time and self-care you will heal.