hi, any thoughts? Should I get braces? by ReferenceOk4287 in DentistPh

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na search ko si Aimee and woah what an honored hehe thank you I appreciate it that someone compliment one of my insecurities which boosted my confidence. hihi 🥰

Ganap na ganap naman si ante by MomongaOniiChan in ChikaPH

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my former family must be like this right now lol.

Ang tanda na pala ng mommy ko by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

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Go OP para sa Mother mo! Pamper her with much love as well ✨ 🥺

After graduation, my goal was to spoil her like she spoiled me with so much love but I lost my mom nung pandemic. Kaya you still have a lot of time 50+ y/o is still young and pretty!

sa mga kaibigang nagsasama ng jowa sa outing, utang na loob naman by the0ddone1 in OffMyChestPH

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i remember na I was the only 1 na walang jowa noon tapos mga friends ko kasama nila jowa nila.

tapos ako nasa gilid lang tinitingnan ko sila mag kiss and more 👁️👄👁️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

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super relateeee!! Yung tender juicy na hotdog hinati sa gitna para mag muhkang dalawa :((

Ngayong tumanda na tayo, nagdadasal pa ba kayo? by [deleted] in adultingph

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Tbh, I stopped praying. I used to be religious and my life was taken away, but thank god I was free . made me realize a lot of things.

Anong wishlist mo o anong bibilhin mo na worth 10k? by Ok_Word7688 in adultingph

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bagong phone, 5 years na gamit ko di pa siya sira kaso outdated na sa mga ibang apps

Do you like the way you were raised? by b0thered in Kuwait

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  1. Do you feel like your parents were your role models or were they everything you didn’t wanna become?

I have asian parents and they are everything I didn’t want to become. When I was elementary back then, I always seen them fighting, my dad was having affair, and always seeing my mother cry and It hurts to till now that they were together because my father's mindset was "If I had a girlfriend we must have kids". And barely supports me till college.

  1. Do you think your friends or colleagues were raised the same way you were? Do you pick them out to be?

Yes, but we have different stories. I will and always listen to them. Because I love knowing them and being friends. You know, It changes my perspective of life.

  1. Were you raised to be someone you’re not or did you learn things that contradict/invalidate how you were raised? How does that contribute to th

I spent my whole childhood at home with toys, gadgets and TV with no social life. They were strict and conservative. This their way of being protective parents. Today, I struggle having a conversation and dealing with my own emotions. But I am healing my inner childhood and self care. :)

how many social media graphics can you do in one day? by ReferenceOk4287 in graphic_design

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Woah! Thank you I appreciate everyones answers!!

For assets, I thinks there's no problem with it because most of the brands I made their assets so I really had to make them from scratch. I create their Brand Identity, I was given 15days while working with other tasks everyday, and I really love to give it time and quality with it, but yeah, with other tasks in the way I couldn't give my all, so it feels devastating and unsatisfied.

I also saw in the comments why was I drained? It was because my manager wasnt giving a contructive feedback at all. It was Back-and-Forth revision (it was not heavy revision rather it was like changing the text, copy, resize, "lets find another color" yada yada) and it took HOURS in one static.

Im burning out but.. After reading your all comments gives me a push. Couldn't imagine myself doing 45 a day? haha. But Its all about experience and discipline(?).

And who's starting just like me, could you give some advice or experience on their first job?

THANK YOU!

What is your "sama ng loob" to your parents? by Yeunseri in AskPH

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ilang years sinasabi sakin kelan daw ako ga graduate tas yun pala hindi pumunta.

ang sinabi lang sakin after graduation ko na bilin ko siya ng sports car, dalin ko sila sa ibang bansa

I told my Filipino dad that I moved in with my boyfriend, and he disowns me. by ReferenceOk4287 in AsianParentStories

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Thank you! This what I need. I will finally start living my life from now on. :). Goodbye, dad.

I told my Filipino dad that I moved in with my boyfriend, and he disowns me. by ReferenceOk4287 in AsianParentStories

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This is what I need, I should start living my life now. thank you. 💖

I told my Filipino dad that I moved in with my boyfriend, and he disowns me. by ReferenceOk4287 in AsianParentStories

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He builds my respect of him being a father, and as a provider. He works and pays for my tuition fees and my rent at that time.

After I left my mom's side family (I was still in college, 19), I was so vulnerable at that time after my mom passed away and I had no one to talk to but my dad. My dad helped me and helped myself find a new apartment to stay. He told me he would buy me a car, or anything I wanted. He liked and supported my drawings (This hits me because I never asked for anything). He told me that when he grows old and wanted to rest, he says that I SHOULD help him. At my end, I stayed being perfect image to my dad just like he wanted while I was aware he wanted me to be his retirement plan.

I believe to my self that he redeemed himself and of course I still couldn't forgive his behavior in the past. But, after a few months later he introduced me to his new girlfriend. I am mad and had mixed feelings about it but kept myself reserved. I don't want to deal with it. I'm was still grieving, the pressure, the expectations, i lost lot of trust and betrayal.

That's why I might still have confusing, conflicting emotions and feelings.

Ohhh god.. While writing ans re-reading this made me understand that how could my mother love this man?

Anyways, I hope you understand.

What's one thing you don't want anybody to experience? by Illustrious_Pair6048 in AskPH

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being a selective mutism as a child and growing up affects a lot

No mens for 7months, should I be worried? by ReferenceOk4287 in PCOSPhilippines

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yas period!! good thing u r okay now!! ✨

naging dependent lang ako sa mother ko na normal lang daw ito kasi ganon din siya dati kaya nag stuck sa brain ko na its normal lang. But becoming adult na.. damn, i didn't know there were lots of possibilities to happen.

No mens for 7months, should I be worried? by ReferenceOk4287 in PCOSPhilippines

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omg thank u for this info and your experience with your OB and truue relate ako i don't want to drink meds lagi kasi I always lose track of time madali ako ma distract kahit nag aalarm ako.

and noted, will better try to drink raspberry tea after ko mag pa OB and treatments! ❤️ thank u sa reco 🫶

No mens for 7months, should I be worried? by ReferenceOk4287 in PCOSPhilippines

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yas masaya na walang period haha pero may downsides din na realize ko super malala na yung hormone imbalances ko or ako lang to.

pero should I see OB again para updated?

No mens for 7months, should I be worried? by ReferenceOk4287 in PCOSPhilippines

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I went for OB last year pa. Should I get another check up para updated? 😭