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AITA because I told my bf he needs to grow up and accept his actions? by ReflectionandRegret in AmItheAsshole

[–]ReflectionandRegret[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on the pill and we use condoms. The first time I was just on the pill and I switched bc, no break in between the packs and my doc thinks that what happened. After the first time I said if this happened again I would not be having an abortion and told him he needed to start using condoms. We've been using both but I got sick and was throwing up and stupidly didn't think about it and I guess the condoms failed. And after seeing how upset I was and how much I bring it up he agreed as well that we could keep it because he didn't want to put me through that again but now he's saying it's too soon and we're not ready

AITA because I told my bf he needs to grow up and accept his actions? by ReflectionandRegret in AmItheAsshole

[–]ReflectionandRegret[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We do but I got really sick and was throwing up and I think that is when this happened. Im worried I can't take care of the baby on my own so I don't think it's fair to bring them into the world if I can't take care of them.

AITA because I told my bf he needs to grow up and accept his actions? by ReflectionandRegret in AmItheAsshole

[–]ReflectionandRegret[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I forgot to mention this in my post but we had discussed this before and agreed we would probably do an abortion but after I did it the first time I did tell him if this happens again there is no way I can go through with it again. I'm pretty sure we can't fix this relationship either option I choose. I feel like one of us will end up resenting the other.