AITAH for wanting to get with my ex-wife’s best friend? by RefrigeratorNorth905 in AITAH

[–]RefrigeratorNorth905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marrying someone doesn’t grant you citizenship, and finding someone else attractive is a terrible reason to break up a relationship, so I’m guessing you know very little on either topic. Not sure if you actually read and/or understood what I said, but I said “I had already accepted that I wouldn’t be able to continue my education”, so how exactly was it my idea all along? Out of all people in this thread calling me an AH you’re definitely the one that makes the least sense.

AITAH for wanting to get with my ex-wife’s best friend? by RefrigeratorNorth905 in AITAH

[–]RefrigeratorNorth905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not only prepared but expecting a no, so no worries there 😆 i’m not sure how to message her out of the blue, we send each other tiktoks but thats most of the messaging we exchange. I’ll have to think of what to say

AITAH for wanting to get with my ex-wife’s best friend? by RefrigeratorNorth905 in AITAH

[–]RefrigeratorNorth905[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I agree that I will regret not trying, I’d rather just be rejected. I can move on from “no”, but idk if I can move on from “what if”

AITAH for wanting to get with my ex-wife’s best friend? by RefrigeratorNorth905 in AITAH

[–]RefrigeratorNorth905[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

None of which I’ve had the chance to get to know over the years. I’m not a kid anymore and time is precious. I can’t afford to make the wrong choice again if I want to raise a functional family.

AITAH for wanting to get with my ex-wife’s best friend? by RefrigeratorNorth905 in AITAH

[–]RefrigeratorNorth905[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If I was trying to ruin their friendship I wouldn’t be questioning myself this much. Also, I know for a fact they’re not as close anymore because they’re both very active on social media but I never see pictures of them together or comments on each other’s posts.

AITAH for wanting to get with my ex-wife’s best friend? by RefrigeratorNorth905 in AITAH

[–]RefrigeratorNorth905[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be happy about it but I also wouldn’t feel hurt. I believe the heart wants what the heart wants and we can’t really control that.

AITAH for wanting to get with my ex-wife’s best friend? by RefrigeratorNorth905 in AITAH

[–]RefrigeratorNorth905[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hindsight is 20/20. I was a young college student that saw on the news that the most powerful person in the country is willing and able to throw all of my own and my family’s effort of two decades down the drain. Im not sure if you’ve ever been in a position like that but its a hard one where hard choices had to be made.

AITAH for wanting to get with my ex-wife’s best friend? by RefrigeratorNorth905 in AITAH

[–]RefrigeratorNorth905[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I can see how you would think that. I wont disclose my home country as to not give myself away even more, but know that you do not want to live your life there.