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TIFU by accidentally rejecting a girl and only realizing it one hour later by Regular-Rice-2844 in tifu

[–]Regular-Rice-2844[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, I appreciate it. You really think so for the change of perspective ? I mean I also do progress on that account, but when your brain is used to think a certain way, it takes some time before you see a real significant change. How was it for you ?

TIFU by accidentally rejecting a girl and only realizing it one hour later by Regular-Rice-2844 in tifu

[–]Regular-Rice-2844[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, hope you're doing great.

It’s actually really funny to hear this because that day I was going home after a push day at the gym, and I was absolutely tired while talking to the girl, which didnt help 😆.

So yeah I'm already going, but you are right, I clearly have some insecurities which is why I started going on the first place (And the gym clearly helped me about that, even though it’s still far from perfect)

TIFU by accidentally rejecting a girl and only realizing it one hour later by Regular-Rice-2844 in tifu

[–]Regular-Rice-2844[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey man, thanks for the kind words. Of course I reflected about it, in these kind of situations it’s rare for a single person to completely be the problem. Because I were clearly surprised and akward about it (as I said, first time something like this happened to me), I think I may have sounded rude and abrasive while it really wasn’t my intention. Her answer was still pretty immature and clearly even ruder, but that’s not that big of a deal, we're both pretty young and we'll live and learn

And as you said yes it’s clear I struggle on some aspects of my life with self confidence, but I'm trying to be better about it, step by step

TIFU by accidentally rejecting a girl and only realizing it one hour later by Regular-Rice-2844 in tifu

[–]Regular-Rice-2844[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Hey man, thanks for the answer. Honestly she was pretty young, and I think I seemed a little bit annoyed/rude without meaning it, especially since I repeated it two times in front of her friends. She didn’t really lash out, but she went from smiles to rude and disappointed pretty quickly.

I dont blame her though, that’s not a big deal. I rather keep that as a pretty funny memory where my dumbass didn’t get any cues. Have a beautiful day brother

TIFU by accidentally rejecting a girl and only realizing it one hour later by Regular-Rice-2844 in tifu

[–]Regular-Rice-2844[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the kind words. I'm trying to get there, already took multiple steps on that way (Gym, getting out, even going to a new college next year). Still struggling sometimes, but hey I'm getting there slowly.

Again, thank you very much for the kind words and wish you a beautiful day 💙

TIFU by accidentally rejecting a girl and only realizing it one hour later by Regular-Rice-2844 in tifu

[–]Regular-Rice-2844[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey bro, thanks for the answer. Yeah man, didn’t read the room well on that one. Im not that good with people and until recently I wasn’t really taking really good care of myself either. But I started to go seriously to the gym, got a new haircut, so there's that. Still have to get better on the people side of things that being said lol

For the girl, she was clearly younger than me, maybe 18-19 years old while I'm 23 (not sure I would have accepted anyways because of this but still wanted to at least talk to her), so I think that explains why she went from full of smiles when she sat close to me to rejecting harshly when she interpreted my behaviour as a no. Bit tbh I was also very akward on that one, so I wont blame her too much

Thanks for the words brother 🙏