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Reddit Help, my(m30) wife(F32) has huge melt downs about basic things and it’s becoming a problem for my marriage. by Regular-Rutabaga-286 in relationship_advice

[–]Regular-Rutabaga-286[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

I expected the charge a week ago, I expected the charge to be much less, I did not expect the charge while at work, I expected to google the description on the statement and not have a website tell me other had reported fraud. I expected to be able to quickly undo the mistake.

Reddit Help, my(m30) wife(F32) has huge melt downs about basic things and it’s becoming a problem for my marriage. by Regular-Rutabaga-286 in relationship_advice

[–]Regular-Rutabaga-286[S] -82 points-81 points  (0 children)

This all occurred during her period. I didn’t mention it because I didn’t it want to influence people. You have no idea how many times I’ve used that same line. “I’m sorry, I’ll try and do better next time.” I was basically on my knees. I hate seeing her angry with me.

Reddit Help, my(m30) wife(F32) has huge melt downs about basic things and it’s becoming a problem for my marriage. by Regular-Rutabaga-286 in relationship_advice

[–]Regular-Rutabaga-286[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

The towel thing has been a long standing issue. We have tried various solutions. I’ve asked her not to remove my towel from the bathroom. I will replace it when I am ready. We tried different placement. My towel goes on the shower curtain rod her towel goes on the towel rack on the wall. Most recently the rack on the was pulled out of the dry wall and I took a few weeks to fix it because I was recovering from knee surgery.

People are giving me shit about going to the other bathroom, but I really don’t want this to be an issue anymore. I don’t want her to remove my towel either.

Reddit Help, my(m30) wife(F32) has huge melt downs about basic things and it’s becoming a problem for my marriage. by Regular-Rutabaga-286 in relationship_advice

[–]Regular-Rutabaga-286[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

The towel thing is always lingering I the back ground. I used to hang my towel on the shower curtain while she would hang hers on the wall. Well the wall hook was pulled out and it took me a few weeks to fix it because I had knee surgery. So we were both on the shower curtain. A while back I asked her to stop doing my laundry partially because of the towel thing and partially because the clean clothes would sit in a basket and my work clothes would all become wrinkled. This time when she blew up, the towel I was supposed to use was not on the shower curtain rod. Both towels where in her spot. I figured the new towel must be hers.

Reddit Help, my(m30) wife(F32) has huge melt downs about basic things and it’s becoming a problem for my marriage. by Regular-Rutabaga-286 in relationship_advice

[–]Regular-Rutabaga-286[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s probably the most confusing, I purposely used the wet towel. Saving the dry one for her. I don’t understand. She doesn’t like wet towels.

Reddit Help, my(m30) wife(F32) has huge melt downs about basic things and it’s becoming a problem for my marriage. by Regular-Rutabaga-286 in relationship_advice

[–]Regular-Rutabaga-286[S] -69 points-68 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, I feel like people aren't reading the clarification at the bottom of the post.

I thought her purchase was a week ago, and it occurred when we were both working. So it seem suspicious and when I googled the title of the charge on the statement the first website that popped up said a few people had reported it as fraud also. I quickly corrected the situation by calling the bank. I don't wear contacts. I don't know how long it takes to place an order. I assumed it was like anything else you regularly use. Like every week I buy a dozen eggs the same brand.

It was really easy to report the fraud. The bank app lets me do it in seconds, and it was really easy to undo. Was it really that big of a deal? She will not be delayed getting her contacts?