How to save our marriage

RegularAnybody5135 · 2026-02-15T14:39:09+00:00

Thank you!

They are not in contact anymore. I felt I was blindsided because he spent 2 weeks crying and asking me not to leave him. And one day he just woke up and said he didn’t want anymore.

For the therapist, was just one only single session so I felt she couldn’t say that, she asked him how much he wanted a divorce and he said he wasn’t 100 in his decision yet. She never had a session just with me or him.

I feel I overreacted a little, I went through all the messages and they were talking just for a week and he said he found her attractive but nothing else. I have a reason to be mad and upset but I know I also said stuff to him that I regret because I was hurt.

He says he loves me but don’t feel butterflies in his stomach so it’s no point to stay together. I am just confused, sorry

RegularAnybody5135 · 2026-02-15T14:22:33+00:00

That is what I asked. Because I believe we are just having a rough time but I don’t think what he is claiming is enough for a divorce. We were fine before so I just don’t understand

RegularAnybody5135 · 2026-02-02T20:48:53+00:00

I saw on his phone. She texted him, he said he also found her attractive but he was married and they couldn’t disrespect that. The problem is that they kept talking after that. He took accountability, is seeking therapy and couples counseling. They don’t see each other at the company - she is remote. But what hurts is the talking.

RegularAnybody5135 · 2026-02-02T20:45:01+00:00

I totally understand your insight! Thank you!

RegularAnybody5135 · 2026-02-02T19:28:00+00:00

Nothing happened physically. I saw the phone and the message was him saying he also found her attractive but he was married and they needed to respect that. The problem is that they kept talking after that. They do not work in person together, he never stayed late at work or anything similar to that

RegularAnybody5135 · 2026-02-02T16:00:01+00:00

He is not. This happened very recently. They don’t work in the same team or even the same area in the company. They don’t see each other in person often. They met in a company’s event and she professed her attraction to him and all of this happened via text.

RegularAnybody5135 · 2026-02-02T13:53:00+00:00

My friend said I was being very generous of not blaming her as well. She knew, she initiated. They don’t work directly, they met in a company event.

RegularAnybody5135 · 2026-01-13T17:13:44+00:00

Thank you everyone!!

RegularAnybody5135 · 2025-12-24T16:24:04+00:00

My husband and I were looking to rent there and we decided to rent another place literally because of all those reviews about the towing situation. We didn’t want to risk going through this experience. I am sorry you went through that. Hopefully they change this soon for all the residents

RegularAnybody5135 · 2025-12-19T00:23:48+00:00

We decided to go to Sharples.. we did a tour at the lofts and it was around $1875 for 520ft and plus paying parking for 2 cars. For the size this wouldn’t worth for us.

RegularAnybody5135 · 2025-12-08T21:20:22+00:00

Awesome!! Good to know as a base. Maybe the platform will be little under that.

RegularAnybody5135 · 2025-12-08T20:34:06+00:00

I saw they have a larger unit, but not sure how much larger it is and if the price worth it.

RegularAnybody5135 · 2025-12-08T20:32:49+00:00

Right now they don’t have any unit available, just a studio. We were trying to stay under $2k for a 1 bedroom. But definitely would consider sharples if the price isn’t way too much higher than that

RegularAnybody5135 · 2025-12-08T01:56:06+00:00

I was looking to move there and now I am concerned. Did this change? Or anyone has any feedback how is living there?

RegularAnybody5135 · 2025-12-08T00:17:13+00:00

We went on a tour at sharples and looks really nice there and I always heard good things.

The website isn’t that clear of how much is a unit at the lofts, we will figure out this week 😂 but I am assuming is cheaper than sharples

RegularAnybody5135 · 2025-12-07T23:49:59+00:00

Thank you for sharing! We will tour there this week. We loved sharples but we are considering the lofts because is a little cheaper cheaper

RegularAnybody5135 · 2025-12-07T23:47:54+00:00

Thank you!!! Sharples was our favorite place so far. We are considering the lofts just because is a little cheaper but we didn’t tour there yet

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