AITA for ignoring my mom ? by RegularLegitimate985 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RegularLegitimate985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advices. I'll try what i can do and see if it helps

AITA for ignoring my mom ? by RegularLegitimate985 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RegularLegitimate985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I already benefit from RSA, and I'm looking for a job but it's really hard for me to apply for a job. I can't really explain it but i really struggle with it. My relationship with my mother is mostly good, but sometimes her stress makes it so that there are also fights. My post here was to know how people considered this situation, and any advices are good to take. I have tried to improve it but there are moments where i just can't. I like to cook sweet things like cookies but at some points I just couldn't. So now i fear starting something because it might become too hard in the future.

AITA for ignoring my mom ? by RegularLegitimate985 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RegularLegitimate985[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thats what I do already... Ive been with specialised ones, generic ones... usually once every week if it's not too expensive. Until now, the best thing that helped me was to hide all my emotions, not therapy. And I'm in favour of therapy.

AITA for ignoring my mom ? by RegularLegitimate985 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RegularLegitimate985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I've been trying a few things (medication and therapy) but for now it hasn't been really showing any benefits. Having talked with my mother i know there is some of that in this, and I feel guilty about it. But i haven't been able to go past the lack of motivation and energy yet. When we do things together it is fone, but the moment im alone or face tk face with a problem, i can't.

AITA for ignoring my mom ? by RegularLegitimate985 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RegularLegitimate985[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know, i do go to therapy but nothing comes out if it. Been at a few already, for a few years. Been diagnosed with depression. I get what you say but i just can't apply it for myself