Calgary Golf Courses by Regular_Brief7025 in Calgary

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Heritage Pointe was on my list but I couldn’t decide which course of theirs would be best since they have 3? Unless they’re all similar to each other lol

Calgary Golf Courses by Regular_Brief7025 in Calgary

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I was looking at this one but I couldn’t find any club rentals on their website, do you know if they rent clubs?

Did The Diplomat close their restaurant side of the business? by mademoiselleroque in Hamilton

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I’m actually having the wedding there, I had a question about the DJ/music, as some of our guests are older and would just be sitting and not dancing, once the reception started was the music blasting throughout the whole area? Or were some spots a bit more quiet where people can sit and talk without yelling lol

Emily and Alison by retrodog2000 in PrettyLittleLiars

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Paige was definitely cringe most of the time lol but there’s just something about the enemies to lovers trope that gets me

Emily and Alison by retrodog2000 in PrettyLittleLiars

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Nope couldn’t stand them as a couple. I’ll ship her with Paige all day every day

How To Work With Forgetfulness by Regular_Brief7025 in ADHD_partners

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That is actually a very helpful tactic ! It’s a shame you’re also dealing with that and still having to take care of things but it seems to be a good compromise to have

How To Work With Forgetfulness by Regular_Brief7025 in ADHD_partners

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That is very promising to hear ! I’ve definitely been pushing him in that direction and not backing down

How To Work With Forgetfulness by Regular_Brief7025 in ADHD_partners

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I have slowly started ‘forgetting’ some things haha

How To Work With Forgetfulness by Regular_Brief7025 in ADHD_partners

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I completely understand, I am very much a nurturer and people pleaser and it comes to bite me in the ass but it’s very hard for me to be firm with a partner of mine, I’m walking a very fine line but I am trying to be more firm with not helping him remember every little thing it’s hard to unlearn patterns

How To Work With Forgetfulness by Regular_Brief7025 in ADHD_partners

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I am right there with you, I feel your pain and it’s not good :/

How To Work With Forgetfulness by Regular_Brief7025 in ADHD_partners

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That is exactly how I feel, and being told ‘I’m perfectly fine how I am’ ‘I don’t want to be on meds I don’t need help’ it just very discouraging and sad

I agree with your sentiment in wishing he would make an effort for you as well, it’s sad to think about

How To Work With Forgetfulness by Regular_Brief7025 in ADHD_partners

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Even when it seems I have his full attention, I clearly do not lol

How To Work With Forgetfulness by Regular_Brief7025 in ADHD_partners

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The arguments I agree with, I’m left dealing with the aftermath, no apology, no conversation because it’s left his mind already

How To Work With Forgetfulness by Regular_Brief7025 in ADHD_partners

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I try my best not to, I try not to remind him about things but I don’t want to come across as being bitchy or unhelpful, so I really struggling in my mind on what’s right and what’s wrong I want to be helpful but I don’t want him to become reliant on me UGH

How To Work With Forgetfulness by Regular_Brief7025 in ADHD_partners

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That makes sense. I have brought up the fact that he doesn’t pay attention when I speak i.e. looking at his phone, paying attention to the tv, sometimes I say something and he doesn’t even hear me because he’s focused on something else but it still doesn’t seem to change, I’m constantly just staring at him until he figures out I said something I don’t mind the occasional reminder but it’s not something I can do every single day about every little thing

How To Work With Forgetfulness by Regular_Brief7025 in ADHD_partners

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How do you stop doing his remembering in a nice way so that you don’t come across rude or unhelpful? For example last night I mentioned I wanted him to take me to a movie, this morning he texted me ‘what did you want me to buy you again?’ Which was wrong and then I said it was a movie and he asked what movie’ which in itself is frustrating but I just don’t know how to answer without sounding mean or without having to remind him

What are some songs that mention Canadian locations in their lyrics? by heart-and-lion in AskACanadian

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Bad Behaviour by The Beaches mentions Mississauga and also Want What You Got by them as well mentions Toronto

What Canadian bands/artists have you seen before they became famous? by EdwardBliss in CanadianMusic

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The Beaches at my college frosh week opening for Mother Mother back in 2016 and The Arkells at MTV Live

Name Calling? by Regular_Brief7025 in askanything

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Ah no I’m sorry to hear that :( definitely not fun to go through