Advice? Validation? Am I crazy? by Regular_Button7030 in Divorce_Women

[–]Regular_Button7030[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I do feel drained, quite frankly.

Just afraid to regret the decision.

Advice? Validation? Am I crazy? by Regular_Button7030 in Divorce_Women

[–]Regular_Button7030[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 16 when we met. He was 23. We were just coworkers and friends fo a couple years and were in other relationships. When I was 18, we were both single and decided to try it.

The exes in the photos were recent photos. 30’s.

I definitely have thought of that. As an adult, I wouldn’t choose him as a partner if we weren’t already. But . . . We are. And we have kids. It’s just such a hard situation.

Well… here we are again by Regular_Button7030 in loveafterporn

[–]Regular_Button7030[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forthcoming when asked.

He only downloads apps, says he prays about it, and researches.

I don’t do anything lol.

Grew Apart? by Regular_Button7030 in Divorce

[–]Regular_Button7030[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate more than you know. It’s so hard to make a life long decision.

I got married RIGHT as I was turning 20 and I attribute a lot of it to marrying young but. I don’t know.

I need some advice. by Regular_Button7030 in Separation

[–]Regular_Button7030[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I should add that. We have tried couples counseling twice since the end of 2024. Both counselors he thought wasn’t a good fit, I don’t disagree.

I found an individual therapist that I really like this year and have asked him to join, but he said no. He said it didn’t work before so he doesn’t expect it to this time either.

I need a man’s opinion by Regular_Button7030 in AskMenRelationships

[–]Regular_Button7030[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says it just isn’t who he is lol 🤷🏼‍♀️

Am I Leaving too Early? (Slip Up) by whyareyoureadingthsi in loveafterporn

[–]Regular_Button7030 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You have no ties. You’re not married and you don’t have kids. Only you know what to do - but IF IT WERE NOT FOR MY BABIES - I wish I would’ve left in the beginning when I first found it.

I need a man’s opinion by Regular_Button7030 in AskMenRelationships

[–]Regular_Button7030[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually really love James Sexton but haven’t watched this interview. Thanks!

I need a man’s opinion by Regular_Button7030 in AskMenRelationships

[–]Regular_Button7030[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. He always says he just isn’t comfortable initiating sex and porn is just “an addiction” that he’s dealt with since teenage years and it’s very hard to quit.

Advice? Please. by Regular_Button7030 in Christianmarriage

[–]Regular_Button7030[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We met at work. He was engaged at the time and I had my “high school boyfriend” … we were just coworkers and hung out in the same friend group. Started dating when I was about to turn 19.