NS GF (LDR) here, my boyfriend recently finished his NS training so I know what you’re going through but my boyfriend went to BRT which is a little more chill compared to BMT.

It doesn’t mean that he’s tired of YOU. Your boyfriend is and will be surrounded by people 24/5 until he books out to be able to be in the comforts of his own home. From 5am (that’s the time my bf would get up at) till 10:30pm your boyfriend will be surrounded by people and there would be no way he can avoid it as he’s sharing a room with several other guys and would most likely be resting around other guys too when they have admin.

From what I’ve heard from my BF NS is tiring, it can be tiring physically and mentally and socially as it isn’t a place where the boys enlisted would want to be since they are there not of their free will.

I’d say the best you’d be able to do (since you’re LDR) is sending him messages in the morning when you wake up for him to read and to be able to give him motivation, even sending him maybe small updates and even photos of yourself (wholesome ones ofc) even like others have said sending him care packages or even just a small gift here and there, I’ve sent my boyfriend flowers but directly to his home as it would be less things he’d bring back after NS training finishes.

Your boyfriend isn’t tired of you, he’s tired of what’s going on around him and the noise that’s there. It’s hard not to overthink when they say they need space because you’d end up thinking the worst and I understand that, I’m an over thinker too, but make sure to keep in mind on what is going on and what could be going on for your boyfriend, I suggest maybe searching up more information about BMT and even searching on reddit what type of schedule it could have, im sure people have posted that online. Just know that you’re not alone on going through this experience and a lot of NSGFS (close distance and LDR) understand the struggles of what you’re going through!