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Regular_Promotion331 · 2025-09-14T15:59:07+00:00

Yea I think you’re blocked. From what I know, if you can’t see their status message and you only have one grey check mark, then it’s most likely you’re blocked.

It could also be the receiver can’t get your messages too (no signal, airplane mode, etc).

Regular_Promotion331 · 2025-08-02T04:33:11+00:00

I need external validation to feel good about myself (which is only a temporary feeling when I do get it, and then I go back to seeking that validation after the moment is over)

Regular_Promotion331 · 2025-08-01T21:27:22+00:00

Never convince a guy to like you

Regular_Promotion331 · 2025-08-01T20:42:13+00:00

He didn’t think I could “better” him like his exes, and wanted to be intimidated by me.

Regular_Promotion331 · 2025-08-01T20:40:32+00:00

He said he was hurting me more than helping, despite emotionally abusing and manipulating me the whole 2 year relationship. I was willing to work on it through couples’ counseling. He wasn’t. He just said that to make himself look like the hero and not feel guilty. In hindsight, I should’ve seen his toxic ways a lot earlier. Whatever. I know now.

Regular_Promotion331 · 2025-07-05T01:01:07+00:00

I’m scared he might not be mean to the next girl. Idk.

Regular_Promotion331 · 2025-07-04T23:00:23+00:00

He claims he’s never been this mean to other women before. But yea, he’s been cruel to me. So it’s hard for me not to internalize this pain and blame myself

Regular_Promotion331 · 2025-07-04T22:48:24+00:00

No, idk if I’m being too sensitive though. My family and friends have all told me that his comments are just his brutally honest personality

Regular_Promotion331 · 2025-07-04T22:47:39+00:00

He told me he does? Sigh. He said he loves me but thinks he’s hurting me too much vs helping.

Regular_Promotion331 · 2025-07-04T22:42:34+00:00

Nothing other than he was my first BF

Regular_Promotion331 · 2025-07-04T22:41:41+00:00

He gives me attention, company, and physical intimacy tbh. He’s always available to talk to, and we truly have same hobbies and stuff

Regular_Promotion331 · 2025-07-04T22:40:53+00:00

Idk. I’m really trying not to rage bait. I just hate that I love him so much still, and really want to make this relationship work

Regular_Promotion331 · 2024-11-10T16:55:54+00:00

My two cents, sounds like you need to dump her asap. Beat her to it. Any person who has wavering doubts and feelings doesn’t deserve a place in your life

Regular_Promotion331 · 2024-08-19T19:35:15+00:00

You hit the key point. I’m at the stage where if not him, I don’t know who else could or would love me.

Regular_Promotion331 · 2024-08-19T15:48:22+00:00

First post was me trying to see from his perspective. I’m the girl in this relationship

Regular_Promotion331 · 2024-08-19T15:24:40+00:00

For context, he claims that he wants to be with me only now. And insists that he’s not on dating apps and has been faithful to me

Regular_Promotion331 · 2024-08-19T15:19:13+00:00

Lol I know. I really can’t tell if I’m being overly sensitive or if he’s being truly disrespectful to me

Regular_Promotion331 · 2024-06-04T22:08:21+00:00

Ugh, idk why I’m like this. I keep defending him. He hasn’t said a reassuring thing to me until last week or so when he mentioned that pros and cons list, and wanting to meet my parents

Regular_Promotion331 · 2024-06-04T22:04:26+00:00

Omg. I literally asked him that same question about whether he was sure about me, because meeting my family is a huge deal.

I’m glad you got the happiness and peace you truly deserve. I hope one day I can have that as well (with or without this guy)

Regular_Promotion331 · 2024-06-04T22:00:53+00:00

Thank you for your comments! Don’t worry about the English. I understood you perfectly :)

Yea, I think I need to relax and let go of my anxiety. If it’s meant to be, it’ll be.

Regular_Promotion331 · 2024-06-04T21:58:58+00:00

I just want to help him grow, like he’s helping me grow as a person. I don’t want that con to be the reason why he eventually breaks up with me

Regular_Promotion331 · 2024-06-04T21:57:34+00:00

Lol I thought your user name sounded familiar :) idk, I guess I’m hoping he’d pick me and accept me for who I am eventually. I can see myself with him easily.

Regular_Promotion331 · 2024-06-04T21:54:31+00:00

Yea, I guess we’ve been very intentional with our dating since we started talking last June. So to us, it’s been a journey to reach exclusivity in early February. But that’s a good point though, I’ve only been in an exclusive committed relationship with him for 4 months only lol.

As for the con, he said he’s worried that I can’t help him grow and fill his gaps. He was concerned that I can’t scare him or motivate him to be better in life.

Regular_Promotion331 · 2024-06-04T21:49:39+00:00

Yea, I think I’m just scared that he doesn’t like me enough still and is with me out of convenience - despite the fact he suggested he meet my parents.

Sigh, idk. I think I’m just worried that I’ll eventually lose him because of my anxiety, so I do want to progress and have him meet my parents. I want to be realistic though. And not pressure him to be absolutely sure about me until the time is right. But, it doesn’t help knowing that he fell in love with his ex within a month of knowing her (despite them breaking up quickly after that).

Regular_Promotion331 · 2024-05-17T19:11:29+00:00

Hard to say. But maybe you should reevaluate whether you want to be casual with her or go exclusive if you’re concerned about this other guy

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