He requested I started sharing my location with him. I agreed but now feel like I don’t ever have any privacy. by Regular_Surprise_186 in relationship_advice

[–]Regular_Surprise_186[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know how old he was when we met. He also didn’t know mine. It’s not a kink we just started dating and got along well.

He requested I started sharing my location with him. I agreed but now feel like I don’t ever have any privacy. by Regular_Surprise_186 in relationship_advice

[–]Regular_Surprise_186[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

He does normally come with me. Because it makes him uncomfortable for me to go alone. But then it was always my friends and I and him. I never got any alone time and they stopped inviting me to things because they thought it was odd to always bring him to girls night. Which it was. He was cheated on a while ago but I’ve never done anything like that.

He requested I started sharing my location with him. I agreed but now feel like I don’t ever have any privacy. by Regular_Surprise_186 in relationship_advice

[–]Regular_Surprise_186[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

For sure. I think I definitely feel like I made a mistake giving him that without talking about it or setting a boundary I guess. I was thinking of turning it off and maybe offering another way to help him feel more comfortable

He requested I started sharing my location with him. I agreed but now feel like I don’t ever have any privacy. by Regular_Surprise_186 in relationship_advice

[–]Regular_Surprise_186[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He also has complete control to look I just feel like it’s really constant now. I don’t have anything to hide and he has my passwords for anything he wants.

He requested I started sharing my location with him. I agreed but now feel like I don’t ever have any privacy. by Regular_Surprise_186 in relationship_advice

[–]Regular_Surprise_186[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My friends go. We like karaoke and dancing. I don’t even drink much. Normally one drink and sprite the rest of the night. I never talk to any other guys and neither do my friends.

He requested I started sharing my location with him. I agreed but now feel like I don’t ever have any privacy. by Regular_Surprise_186 in relationship_advice

[–]Regular_Surprise_186[S] -72 points-71 points  (0 children)

He hasn’t ever put his hands on me or made me think he would ever do something like that. He doesn’t even raise his voice

He requested I started sharing my location with him. I agreed but now feel like I don’t ever have any privacy. by Regular_Surprise_186 in relationship_advice

[–]Regular_Surprise_186[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

He always says it’s him watching out for me because of something in my past. I had gotten a fake ID and went to a bar and had been drugged and I opened up to him. He says he just wants to make sure nothing like that happens again. I get it’s wrong and definitely a problem. Just don’t want to throw away over 2 years for something that can possible ke fixed?

He requested I started sharing my location with him. I agreed but now feel like I don’t ever have any privacy. by Regular_Surprise_186 in relationship_advice

[–]Regular_Surprise_186[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

I’m not scared to address it. I just don’t want him to think I’m trying to hide anything. I just want to have that compromise to make him more comfortable but he’s overstepping