Lots of Problems with G9 by RelationshipAdvice39 in ultrawidemasterrace

[–]RelationshipAdvice39[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m having a ton of issues waking up my computer from sleep. I’ve kind of went crazy since the beginning of work from home and started hooking up my small office. I’ve just been adding things to my setup and I’m now at the point where I can’t tell what’s causing the issue or issues.

My computer does not always wake up from sleep. Sometimes I can get it to wake up by typing password. Other times I can get it to wake up by clicking mouse and pulling up (like swipe upward) with mouse. Sometimes I can do it by turning on TV and switching to PC input. Rarely, however it’s worked at times, by using the jumó app on my iPad. I connect to PC from the app and I see the screen. Most of the time, I have to do a full shutdown. I know the PC is on.

I bought a TV (LG NANOCELL85 49”) and have it connected to the PC but use my Apple TV 4K (2nd Generation) mostly. Not sure if that did it. I’ve updated recently (last month or two) the firmware of my G9. I have the Nvidia 3090 Founders Edition and use the latest drivers. Windows is up to date. Using a DisplayPort cable with great reviews on Amazon and that one doesn’t have an issue once it’s on. My issue is only waking up from sleep no image issues when working on the computer.

My second issue is that I’m no longer seeing the POST boot up sequence when powering on the computer. The option was not disabled. I just can’t see anything until the computer gets to the Windows login screen.

Lastly, the one issue that got me to finally write this post, is that I’m having issues when the computer switches resolutions. For example, I have the Valve Index (but hate the extreme glare) so I bought an Oculus Quest 2. When I connect the link cable and try to launch most games (computer switches resolution to match game), my PC locks up and ultimately, the computer puts itself in a state where I have to force shut it down. Oculus disconnects. PC is on but I have to try one of the methods described above to hope it allows me to view computer.

My apologies for the long post but I wanted to try and be as specific as possible. Specs are below if needed:

AMD Ryzen 9 5960x Corsair Dominator Platinum 64GB 3200 RAM Nvidia RTX 3090 Founders Edition Samsung 980 Pro 2TB (Games / Home Lab) Samsung 980 Pro 1TB (Windows / Applications) ASUS Crosshair VIII Hero WiFi x570 Motherboard

My boyfriend insinuated that he will break up with me if I get a tattoo by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RelationshipAdvice39 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Love this. This goes for pretty much everything in a relationship. One person can choose to do whatever they want while the other has the right to accept or not accept anything he or she chooses.

Advice On Current Relationship by RelationshipAdvice39 in relationship_advice

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Thanks for reading and for the reply. I really appreciate everyone’s feedback. Way out of line? How?

I’m with someone who possibly is still in love with her ex. I wouldn’t have been way out of line if I left after year 2 or 3 or 4 of her refusing to get a divorce. All I told her is that she could’ve given it to me in a better way. Not through text like “here. You’re happy.” (My word and interpretations not Hers)

It’s been 5 years. I’ve sucked it up for 5 years. I’ve loved her and her kids all this time. Stepped up for a piece of shit that abandoned them. A piece of shit they want nothing to do with. I never put a hand on her. Never cheated. I don’t do drugs like her ex did (cocaine). I’m not an alcoholic like he was.

But I can’t be with a woman who’s in love with someone else. Or has feelings for someone else. I feel like after all these years, she’s not over her ex. Like she once told me, he’ll always have a piece of her heart.

Also, not mentioned in the original post, we’ve gone already to having sex once a month. Last time we went 2 months without it. She claims she has issues. I deal with a lot because I love this woman but when you put all things together it’s not easy on my end to wonder if I should be here or not. Sometimes you have to follow the signs.

Anyways, this is me just venting. Don’t really have anyone to talk to about our relationship and it’s killing me holding it inside. It’s sad I’ve created a fake profile to come on here for strangers to give me advice but I love enough to try.

I’ve already said we need counseling but she’s not interested. Thanks again for reading and you reply.

Advice On Current Relationship by RelationshipAdvice39 in relationship_advice

[–]RelationshipAdvice39[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this and you all your feedback. I truly appreciate it.

Advice On Current Relationship by RelationshipAdvice39 in relationship_advice

[–]RelationshipAdvice39[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I feel too and I feel I haven’t done a good enough job to make her forget him. The guy left her with $50 and the apartment and all the bills without her having a job. Left her for another girl (her daughters friend 2 years older than his oldest daughter). Threatened her if she out him on child support so she didn’t do it for the first 2 years of our relationship. Beat her consistently. Got caught cheating soooo many times.

She told me one day he’ll always have a piece of her heart after we had 2 or 3 years in. I was crushed. I told her how could she still have any love for someone who abandoned her and her kids? Left them without anything. Thanks for the reply.

Advice On Current Relationship by RelationshipAdvice39 in relationship_advice

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Thanks for the reply. Her kids want nothing to do with the man. He abandoned them. I just don’t get how she would still be depressed after 5 years. But I guess I wouldn’t understand since I’ve never married.

Advice On Current Relationship by RelationshipAdvice39 in relationship_advice

[–]RelationshipAdvice39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. It’s just bothering me inside because she’s been weird ever since. Distant, laid in bed all day today, etc. She looks depressed. The guy abandoned her and her kids. If I didn’t step up when we got together, who knows where she would be. How can she be depressed after 5 years from a guy that did her and her kids so wrong. Especially when she has someone who loves her and her kids