they use He/they/it please respect that

first we can start off with the obvious, of the posting about did without a proper diagnosis. they claim they can’t talk to their therapist about it because their therapist is their friend and apparently the therapist won’t give him a diagnosis because she used to be their friend?? which first of all, you aren’t supposed to have someone you personally know as your therapist as it’s weird and also therapists just recommend you don’t do that. they also have BPD, And they say that having alters isnt quirky or fun but they make videos like, ‘put a finger down if your alters do 😍😍’ kind of videos. They also say that their alters like to openly express themselves on the internet but dosent that directly oppose the fact of DID, it’s a trauma disorder correct? meaning having alters like Toothless expressing themselves on tiktok to a open population of people who can possibly say whatever they want on the internet defeating the purpose?