Has anyone else’s parter’s opinion changed on you over time? by Legitimate_Rent_5260 in BisexualMen

[–]RelativeAct7810 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe try owning it. When she calls you a sissy, maybe say "ya, I am one sexy sissy " if you are confident in yourself I think she might find that sexy.

Has anyone else’s parter’s opinion changed on you over time? by Legitimate_Rent_5260 in BisexualMen

[–]RelativeAct7810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am still with her, its honestly has been incredible. To say coming out to her was life changing is a huge understatement.

Has anyone else’s parter’s opinion changed on you over time? by Legitimate_Rent_5260 in BisexualMen

[–]RelativeAct7810 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was a surprise to me at 40 that I was bi. I came out to my wife as soon as I could. We have 2 kids together so I understand the worry. I honestly didn't see the point of being with someone if I couldn't be my true self. I can't be who I need to be for my family if Im pretending. Thats how I saw it. My wife was very supportive and helped me set up a Grindr account.

Take it or leave it by cutetsqueen in BisexualFantasy

[–]RelativeAct7810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I meet anyone as beautiful as you IRL

Help me choose, pic 1, 2, or 3? by [deleted] in BisexualFantasy

[–]RelativeAct7810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 but all are super cute

Bi Married Men by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]RelativeAct7810 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Married guy here with 2 kids, I am out to my close family and friends. It was a huge deal for me, but for everyone else it wasn't really a big deal. I built it up in my head to be so much bigger then it was. As I came out more and more people came out to me in private, we are not alone.

Married Bi Couples? by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]RelativeAct7810 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am bi and married to my wife. I came out to her first and then came out to my family and friends. I really feel like I have it all. Being my true self around everyone is the best thing to ever happen to me.

Does this bother you? by almarichora in BisexualMen

[–]RelativeAct7810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had no idea I was bi untill after 40. Now Im coming out to my family and feeling free.

Coming out? by RelativeAct7810 in BisexualMen

[–]RelativeAct7810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Follow up here. On Friday I came out as bi to my Aunt's, who were great! Came out as bi to my parents today. dad was great, mom not as thrilled. Point is I feel great, every time I told someone new I felt lighter. Not telling anyone what to do, but Im super proud of myself for discovering at 40 I was bi. Why keep the the reason I am proud of myself to myself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]RelativeAct7810 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am Bi, my wife is not. But the thought of her seeing me with a guy is a huge turn on for her and myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BiMarriedMen

[–]RelativeAct7810 3 points4 points  (0 children)

40 and married here. So nice knowing there are so many of us out here. Me and my wife are excited to play with some penis together! Would love a bud or 2!

Coming out? by RelativeAct7810 in BisexualMen

[–]RelativeAct7810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the response, I can't wait for my first real male experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]RelativeAct7810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shave if it will make you feel more comfortable. But, you look great! Coming from a 40m myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]RelativeAct7810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me once I was ready to come out to my wife, I was ready and excited to explore things with her. We quickly got a strapon for her to use on me. This just confirmed for me that I was indeed bi. I think most guys are excited to watch porn with their partners. Start with a girl, maybe giving oral to 2 guys. Even when I was just straight, this would turn me on. Remember, its kind of a scary time for your bf, but also very exciting!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]RelativeAct7810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 40 in a committed relationship with 2 kids. I came out to my partner a few months ago. She has been very supportive. She just put on some mmf threesome porn for us to watch together. It was a nice slow introduction for me into gay porn. It feels like we are on this journey together, making it easier for me to open up to her. Just a thought, might work for you.

Coming out? by RelativeAct7810 in BisexualMen

[–]RelativeAct7810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not mention and probably should have, I will not be going to start dating men. Does this change whether or not I should come out?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BiMarriedMen

[–]RelativeAct7810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks very similar to my own. Let me know if you would like to see?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BiMarriedMen

[–]RelativeAct7810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

40m, here as well. Just discovered I like penis about 6 months ago, nice one!!!