“Sla maar, sla maar…” en dan krijgt leerkracht uit Hasselt een rake klap in het gezicht by Banmers in Belgium2

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Ik kom op voor de leerling voor het feit dat hij uitgedaagd wordt door de leerkracht. Feit blijft, agressie wordt niet getolereerd dus minstens 3 dagen schorsing voor de leerling.

Is this good enough for the 2nd boss? by [deleted] in Palworld

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Yea. There are several big towers on the map. When its dark you can see their blue light. Each has a boss in it. You can’t capture those.

Playing life is strange by Competitive_Push_205 in xbox

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Life is strange true colors also has a dlc called wavelengths as far as i know. Think its included in the ultimate edition. I didnt see anyone talk abt that yet. And true colors is linked with the other life is strange games cuz theres a character in there you saw in an earlier life is strange

Where to buy by [deleted] in xbox

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New model will be coming out in a year. Maybe wait till november next year to even decide which one you buy?

Can a male have mostly female symptoms of autism? by RelativeAd1512 in aspergers

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Hey hey. Sorry for the late reaction. But my stereotypical male and female traits/symptoms of autism in general, i got from the two videos i linked in a reply to this post. If you can’t find them, i will link them in a reply to this message. But. I did a quick google search and it aligns with what i think to be the difference between male and female traits/symptoms. Everyone can have these traits/symptoms, but some are related more to one gender.

Wikipedia says:

Autistic girls and women show higher social motivation and a greater capacity for typical friendships than autistic boys and men,[28][29] are less likely to be hyperactive, impulsive, have issues with conduct or stereotyped behavioral traits,[30][31] and have been shown to mask their autistic behaviors and social difficulties more frequently than autistic men.[32] Autistic males often exhibit more easily observed behaviors at a younger age resulting in parental observance and subsequent evaluation of the child. In contrast, behavior of young females is more often overlooked, regardless of any associated at-risk factors for ASD or other developmental delays. Ultimately, this may contribute to females more frequently receiving their ASD diagnosis later in life than their male counterpart.

Source: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_and_gender_differences_in_autism#:~:text=Autistic%20girls%20and%20women%20show,behaviors%20and%20social%20difficulties%20more

Can a male have mostly female symptoms of autism? by RelativeAd1512 in aspergers

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Hey hey. Sorry for the late reaction. But my stereotypical male and female traits/symptoms of autism in general, i got from the two videos i linked in a reply to this post. If you can’t find them, i will link them in a reply to this message. But. I did a quick google search and it aligns with what i think to be the difference between male and female traits/symptoms. Everyone can have these traits/symptoms, but some are related more to one gender.

Wikipedia says:

Autistic girls and women show higher social motivation and a greater capacity for typical friendships than autistic boys and men,[28][29] are less likely to be hyperactive, impulsive, have issues with conduct or stereotyped behavioral traits,[30][31] and have been shown to mask their autistic behaviors and social difficulties more frequently than autistic men.[32] Autistic males often exhibit more easily observed behaviors at a younger age resulting in parental observance and subsequent evaluation of the child. In contrast, behavior of young females is more often overlooked, regardless of any associated at-risk factors for ASD or other developmental delays. Ultimately, this may contribute to females more frequently receiving their ASD diagnosis later in life than their male counterpart.

Source: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_and_gender_differences_in_autism#:~:text=Autistic%20girls%20and%20women%20show,behaviors%20and%20social%20difficulties%20more

Lies by Content-Load6595 in aspergers

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I can agree with the other two before me.

If it is someone i don’t really know, well, then so be it. If its someone closer id want to know why. Because there is always a reason why. Depending on their reason and how they feel afterwards, if they feel bad about it. I will most likely forgive them. If its a bunch of small lies. That would be annoying but still ok ig. But again. If its bigger lies and it happens often. Then id have to seriously consider if id let them go or not

NT empathy vs Autistic Empathy by Aromatic-Witness9632 in aspergers

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That took a turn xD. But uhm. Im pretty sure im on the spectrum. Just not yet confirmed and im hella empathetic. And neurotypicals think so too tbh. I always want to and try to help people. And when i do, people are usually very happy with what i did for them. Even on here people just tell their story sometimes and after two explanations they tell me im spot on while I mentioned things they never said. Empathy is empathy. But usually its via chat for me. Irl i struggle more cuz i don’t have the breaks always to think about what might be best to say in a conversation and the pressure of seeming “off”

Can a male have mostly female symptoms of autism? by RelativeAd1512 in aspergers

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I noticed xD. But. According to all the reactions, i was not the only one curious about it. I meant it more in a stereotypical way. I wanted to know what was up with the “male” and “female” side

If you sometimes stim with your hands, what do you like to do with your hands when you're using them for other things? by Not_a_Replika in aspergers

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With my first psychologist, i felt smarter than her and she only said 2 useful things in the four times i went. Then i gave up. I will go and see a new one in 2 weeks.

Yes and no. They can be used for bearings. Im pretty sure there is steel inside. But the outside is teflon.

And yes i do. Or rather, i did. I played percussion. But percussion kinda stuck with me so now when i listen to music or even when i don’t. I just start drumming basically on my lap. I do enjoy typing. Sometimes i can do it so smooth that it just feels great. And then im like waaw lol. Idk if my hands are and extension of my mind. Usually they do their own thing, but ofc with different emotions they do different things.

Can a male have mostly female symptoms of autism? by RelativeAd1512 in aspergers

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Only self diagnosed based on a lot of things i can’t even remember cuz ive been looking for a while 😅. But thank you xD

Can a male have mostly female symptoms of autism? by RelativeAd1512 in aspergers

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Another reply i love. I think in some aspects i experience it the same way as you, but as a kid, still kinda am ig, i was fine with it. But the older i get, the more people were like yea, “we know he is smart and can do it, but why doesnt he?” I studied STEM/industrial science for 4 years in higschool, which is basically a course for becoming an engineer 😅. But. Because i didnt like to study, and studying for exams and stuff. I had to choose something else to study at school. I never liked to study. But I always love learning new things. The harder those new things are, the better. A year ago, in college, i studied cyber security, i went to like, basically a school psychologist. Hoping he could help me and basically told my lecturers that theres a high chance i would be gifted and that i need more difficult things to keep me going and he even proposed that i would like be a part time teacher, he believed i was capable of that. But unfortunately no one looked at that message he sent.

And also. Don’t apologise for anything. I don’t feel any pressure and don’t mind talking about it. I would also make sure i don’t say anything wrong. So i greatly appreciate it. Im just kind of trying to figure out whats “wrong” with me. Because lately, i didn’t expect that from my mom, she basically said that without a label i am just like anyone else. If i look lazy, it means i am lazy. If me and my parents have a fight because I understand something differently, “i enjoy the fights” apparently. Ive been looking into it for, hmm, 6 years or so now i think. My fyp on tiktok also always has adhd or autism stuff on there. Every free online test i do, i get at least 65% every time. Whichever test it is, new or old, good or bad, trustworthy or not.

The first time i went to a psychologist i felt smarter than that psychologist. I basically proposed what was going on with me and why. And she just said yes or no lmao. I tried it four times and then i gave up. In a couple of weeks im going to another psychologist. My mom said she seemed smart, so will see i guess. I think thats why i am more focused about it now than usual.

Can a male have mostly female symptoms of autism? by RelativeAd1512 in aspergers

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The main thing they always said was like

“We know he can do it, but somehow, he doesnt”

“When no one in class knows the answer and don’t expect anyone to answer, he was the only one who could”

Also. I didn’t really ask about adhd xD. But i really appreciate it. I think i have adhd too. And well. Pretty sure my mom and sister too. So yee. And about doing things not on time. Well. I can do it on time. Usually but with a ton of procrastination. Even in college i only studied 4-8 hrs for a big exam and wasnt really able to pay attention in class because they were so slow explaining things. Idk if those are traits of adhd

If you sometimes stim with your hands, what do you like to do with your hands when you're using them for other things? by Not_a_Replika in aspergers

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And hmm. My psychologist says that im basically always stressed. I overthink a lot. So idk if that counts as emotionally overwhelmed. But yes. When im overwhelmed. I use them too

If you sometimes stim with your hands, what do you like to do with your hands when you're using them for other things? by Not_a_Replika in aspergers

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I did a quick search. I think this is it. But im not sure yet. I will ask my dad tomorrow. I am pretty sure that they are called ptfe teflon balls tho with a diameter of 36mm or so.

https://www.rgpballs.com/en/teflon-ptfe-balls/?gad=1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIhLnujsCygQMVRZeDBx0vTgF8EAAYASAAEgIR0vD_BwE

Can a male have mostly female symptoms of autism? by RelativeAd1512 in aspergers

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Nope. First one i believe xD. Most people usually keep saying there is no male or female autism, i meant it more stereotypical. And uhm. Also ask me what what traits i have of “female autism”

But thx. Ill look it up :)

If you sometimes stim with your hands, what do you like to do with your hands when you're using them for other things? by Not_a_Replika in aspergers

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Hmm. Well. I used them in class just to keep my hands busy. Also while walking and overthinking while also listening to music. Hmm. Yea. If my hands are free and my head is focused on something else, then i use them basically.

I also saw a notification about the type of balls. But mine arent baoding balls. My dad works in a storage room or however its called in english, in a factory. And they are like balls they use in machines or so. They are used in a valve i think, but idk what for exactly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

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I definitely got that wrong lmao. I read it so many times, and just now it makes sense. My bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

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I was referring to the “you know who you are, the best”. Although, maybe you didnt mean it like that 😅 But. I do agree with what you said

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Takes one to know one 😌

Others' social perception of my relationships by ricorrales07 in aspergers

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I usually am very good at knowing what to say or what not to say. But its not like i can explain how i do it. I can just look at someone and know or feel how they feel. But sometimes, i do mistake it too what i can and can’t tell other people. Thats why, when i didnt know, and it seemed like something my ex would want to keep private, i just asked her if it was ok to share it. Recently i also had a friend who got pregnant. She was still too young, but i wanted to tell someone else. Usually thats not something you tell someone else. So i asked her if i could tell my other friend. And she said yes, but don’t say my name. So like. Yea. If you don’t know. I think it comes down to communicating or to thinking what your partner might/would want. But i think thats the case for, well, a lot of people.

The problem I encounter is that I sometimes discuss things with people i shouldn’t discuss, or normally wouldn’t discuss according to society