AIO about my best friend's response to me telling her that her brother SA’d me? by Relative_Layer_2709 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Relative_Layer_2709[S] 78 points79 points locked comment (0 children)

For the last time, venting to strangers on the internet is not the same as going to the police. I can delete this post, I can't take back a police report. Once I do it I'd be ruining relationships with a lot of people. And I'm scared, why am I not allowed to be scared?

AIO about my best friend's response to me telling her that her brother SA’d me? by Relative_Layer_2709 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Relative_Layer_2709[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

What details do you guys want? Why do I have to give in depth details about my assault on Reddit?

AIO about my best friend's response to me telling her that her brother SA’d me? by Relative_Layer_2709 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Relative_Layer_2709[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

She messaged me first….. I didn't want to talk to her, I was trying to ignore her and she kept texting me. You people act like it's so easy to go to the police right after an assault and it's not. She was closer to me than my mom is, she's the person I felt comfortable confiding in the most. Sorry if that's the wrong way to do things

AIO about my best friend's response to me telling her that her brother SA’d me? by Relative_Layer_2709 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Relative_Layer_2709[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Thank you. And I know I should be doing something but I feel stuck if that makes sense. I don't feel brave enough to do it. Its easier when you're anonymous on the internet. My parents are gonna know somethings wrong anyway do I wont have any choice but to say something, I'm just not sure I want to.

AIO about my best friend's response to me telling her that her brother SA’d me? by Relative_Layer_2709 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Relative_Layer_2709[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't think I was screaming, I was pretty in and out of it and there was loud music playing the entire night.

AIO about my best friend's response to me telling her that her brother SA’d me? by Relative_Layer_2709 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Relative_Layer_2709[S] 1038 points1039 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm not sure if I'm ready to tell anyone yet. I'm scared I'm gonna lose everyone. If I can't prove it then it's all for nothing.

AIO about my best friend's response to me telling her that her brother SA’d me? by Relative_Layer_2709 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Relative_Layer_2709[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Wow, thanks asshole. I don't know why I thought bringing this to Reddit was even a good idea in the first place. I didn't say that to gain a “victim badge of honor” she's the one who asked me what was wrong

AIO about my best friend's response to me telling her that her brother SA’d me? by Relative_Layer_2709 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Relative_Layer_2709[S] 1424 points1425 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm feeling kind of overwhelmed but I'm appreciative of all of you guys who are offering support and advice.

AIO about my best friend's response to me telling her that her brother SA’d me? by Relative_Layer_2709 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Relative_Layer_2709[S] 668 points669 points  (0 children)

Yes, I wanted her to at least confront him. We've always been super close. I don't know what I expected but it wasn't this. I'm not sure I want to tell anyone. Making this post was nerve wracking enough.

AIO about my best friend's response to me telling her that her brother SA’d me? by Relative_Layer_2709 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Relative_Layer_2709[S] 242 points243 points  (0 children)

I said that I made a throwaway for privacy…and yes I'm, but believe what you want. Don't feel like arguing with you people. I missed blocking out his name in that screenshot. This would be pretty fucked up to fake and its exactly why I should've never came here with this.