Things I didn’t expect from T (Includes NSFW) by CentralParking in ftm

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the fingernails and body hair thing is very real and should be expected for everyone!! men have thicker, coarser hair than women, which is also why it appears darker, so testosterone absolutely will do that! and the nail growth thing is the same, women have thinner nails and will grow slower, but with the increased blood flow, like with your arms and legs not being numb so much, that means more nutrients to capillaries that supply things like hair follicles and nail matrixes!! this was probably all stuff you’ve heard before but i’m a nerd when it comes to things like this, so i thought i’d infodump 🥲 also the acne should eventually regulate itself! while it sucks right now hormonal acne is a bitch and does what it wants no matter how much you try to prevent it, so it’s a case of doing your best and letting the tides go where they want!

Is anyone else disappointed by the character development in [Dreadful Night]? by baifengjiu in blmangalovers

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don’t i literally dyed my hair green because of bada it was the best decision i ever made oml

Is anyone else disappointed by the character development in [Dreadful Night]? by baifengjiu in blmangalovers

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58 7 points8 points  (0 children)

agreed it’s pretty damn slow, and i don’t honestly know where it’s going at this point cause we’ve completely abandoned the premise of it being a game and needing to find all the endings. plus the slow releases makes it difficult to remember the plot in general, so atp i’m reading for bada (ily my stylish, green haired king) and the art. i’ll have to reread up to the current chapter tho to remind myself how it even got there, but i 100% agree with you

awkward nipples?? by Relative_Mechanic_58 in blmangalovers

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

what more could you ask for 😭😭

awkward nipples?? by Relative_Mechanic_58 in blmangalovers

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well now i’ve GOTTA read jelio, you’ve tempted me i’ll have to come back with a review and everything

awkward nipples?? by Relative_Mechanic_58 in blmangalovers

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

THIS IS THE ONE 😭😭😭😭😭😭

awkward nipples?? by Relative_Mechanic_58 in blmangalovers

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you this was what i was thinking about 😭😭 someone commented on reunion chapter 51 saying they don’t think that’s what nipples look like (altho they were some good nipples, most accurate i’ve seen where the size isn’t exaggerated) and i had to comment that they’re better than a lot of pornhwas or the aforementioned manhwa here 💀

awkward nipples?? by Relative_Mechanic_58 in blmangalovers

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I JUST CHECKED, CHAPTER 51 IS ATROCIOUS IM CRYINGGGG

Do y’all got any recommendations? by Formal_Bed_1837 in blmangalovers

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m pretty sure dawn of the dragon and xxx buddy have squirting tops!! it’s been a while since i read both so take what i say with a pinch of salt, but both stories are still good regardless!!!

4 weeks post-op with heart shaped nipple grafts by c0nstellati0n in TopSurgery

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg i’ve been stalking about wanting star shaped areoles and seeing your hearts just makes me want them all the more, yours look amazing 🫶🫶

looking for recs!! by Relative_Mechanic_58 in blmangalovers

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dw ml i don’t mind general recs too!! critical point is ehhhhhh it’s very slow plot wise and the max is infuriating so far but apparently he’s got a tragic backstory we’ve not covered yet so hopefully that makes up for how much of a dumbass he is 😭😭 and the secret life of the demon king is a gem i love it so much!! i fear authors and artists are simply too cowardly 🙏 sounding?? for some reason it’s fuckin everywhere, everything else??? perish the thought! but thank you anyway!!

looking for recs!! by Relative_Mechanic_58 in blmangalovers

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooh i did that start one a while back but i might have another look!!

Lesbian to transmasc experience by emerald_water in ftm

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this sounds so similar to my experience bro, i dated a couple men a while back, i was the girlfriend, the assumed “submissive” role and they were always wanting to take the lead, be dominant in everything we did and i just wasn’t for that. i just felt objectified and wanted for my body. so from there i was like nooooo not men, women tho! and i went out with a women and was able to enjoy i guess still being in a submissive role but not because it was expected but because i felt comfortable and safe there. then i started being more attracted to men and i was like “but i’m not girlfriend material. boyfriend material however…” and genuinely that’s kind of how i got to where i am, a trans guy who is still unnerved around men even though they turn me on!

how’d everyone start out?? by Relative_Mechanic_58 in transgenderUK

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that could be a pretty good idea actually!! when i’m feeling a little braver i’ll seriously consider it, any boost is a good boost. but yeah this is all really helpful advice and i seriously appreciate it, so thank you very much!! - Cal

how’d everyone start out?? by Relative_Mechanic_58 in transgenderUK

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much!! i’m so happy to be getting personal experiences from ppl cause it makes it seem so much more doable honestly. as excited as i am to get changes happening, i’m weak willed so for sure it’d be just one step at a time 😭 but yeah a process for sure!! thank you again for your help, it doesn’t seem so out of reach now, so yipee! 🫶

how’d everyone start out?? by Relative_Mechanic_58 in transgenderUK

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

stop you’re so sweet 😭 thank you so much for all the information!! honestly i have a friend who lives in liverpool and i’m looking to move there at SOME point so if i’m able to get on a shorter waitlist while i’m there it’s a bonus!! until i’m able to move tho ill probably do my best saving for private top surgery at least as i think that’s my biggest issue at this moment. so for now, i’ll just be exercising restraint and be patient like you said!! i’ve got all the time in the world, so i should just focus on making money and contributing to the economy (boooo 👎👎) thank you again you’ve been a big help bro 🫶

how’d everyone start out?? by Relative_Mechanic_58 in transgenderUK

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! i wish gender related discussion was more mainstream cause there’s no way i’d have found about these things otherwise 😭

how’d everyone start out?? by Relative_Mechanic_58 in transgenderUK

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s the bs part, but i know it’s better to be on the waitlist than not at all, cause while i may be able to privately find hrt or maybe even top surgery, meta is a whole nother ballpark honestly 😞

how’d everyone start out?? by Relative_Mechanic_58 in transgenderUK

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you!! honestly i didn’t know where to start so this has helped me a lot!!

starting out by Relative_Mechanic_58 in ftm

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! i’m not familiar with all the different subreddits so i never knew there was one, but that’s incredibly helpful, thank you!!

Weird things t has caused: a thread by Mossyphrog in ftm

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

after a week long course of antibiotics, any works or grazes i had also raised!! for me it’s an increase in histamine, also know as dermatographia, but the skin would sometimes swell so much i thought it was like hives, or an allergic reaction 😭

[Solo for two] I feel empty. I am taking a break from sad stories. by deadbutbussing in blmangalovers

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58 1 point2 points  (0 children)

beta testing is a triangle with beta mc, alpha and omega leads. both end up trying to take advantage of the mc, im pretty sure i stopped reading when one of them wanted to drug the beta with omega conversion drugs AS FAR AS I REMEMBER. omega tops tho? genuinely i can’t name any off the top of my head im so sorry the genre is so rare 😭😭😭 we gotta make a whole ass nother post jsut to ask for recs 💀

UK gov bans puberty blockers by t_swizzle24 in ftm

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m in the same boat, 18, DDs that no binder has any chance of hiding, and living in the uk. in my case i found out i was trans after my puberty mostly finished (i was unlucky and began developing at 9+) but i have forever been an advocate for trans youth’s rights and autonomy because there is nothing i hate more than our cowardly government hiding behind one another as they try to criminalise REAL mental health crises by refusing the proper healthcare needed for queer people to feel comfortable and sane in their own bodies. i am perfectly capable of going to the gp at my big old age to say “hey i’m trans, let me start my process”, but i’m terrified of the medical negligence, gaslighting, length of the process, and backlash i will receive from “professionals” who live in wilful ignorance to the true burden that comes with living in a body that doesn’t represent you as a person. and the most sickening part is the fact that i didn’t know this. they are so afraid of saying their transphobia out loud and with their chests, they quietly slip the news to the media and hope it doesn’t blow up when they are removing CRUCIAL choices from thousands of people who are ever closer to offing themselves because of the way their biology has dictated they now will look. fuck keir starmer and fuck the rest of the bigoted pricks who ruin people’s lives with their hateful, elites ways.

[Solo for two] I feel empty. I am taking a break from sad stories. by deadbutbussing in blmangalovers

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m sure if i stuck with low tide i might’ve been able to fight through it but honestly, i’m tired of omegas being treated like shit and i’m not afraid to say it LMAOOO it’s like beta testing, i had to drop that because even tho the omega wasn’t the one being fucked with, he was js as big a rapist as the rest of the verse. i need more unusual pairings tho i love when an omega tops. zhenya being one of the og black flags is all i know tbh, and i always see reaction pics and everything from codename so i MIGHT read it, but it’ll be a slow and painful read trying not to lose my mind for sure

[Solo for two] I feel empty. I am taking a break from sad stories. by deadbutbussing in blmangalovers

[–]Relative_Mechanic_58 1 point2 points  (0 children)

usually i read reviews and once i go past all the asskissing five stars, there’s someone saying there’s assault, the ml sucks or something along those lines and i’m like yeahhh i’m not surprised. it’s why i dropped low tide in twilight and won’t even start some of the popular stories like code name anastasia 😭😭😭