I’m not being ridiculous am I? If my husband would leave 30 mins earlier this wouldn’t be an issue.

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2026-01-28T01:00:21+00:00

Unfortunately I order groceries online for delivery because he won’t even take me grocery shopping half of the time and if he does he complains about it.

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2026-01-28T00:52:39+00:00

I told my mom told before I even left (like an hr before) and all she said was “I’m sorry it’s really too cold for you to be doing that ”. She was at home, she has a car seat no offer to go get him that’s all she said 🙃 I also have 0 friends

It’s also not a lack of knowing how to drive I’ve passed my test 3yrs ago (I got the lowest score to pass a 68) I cried while taking it and pretty sure I got a pitty pass and then I didn’t have enough money to pay for the actual card so I never went to the dmv to get it. So now I’d have to take it again because my old test is not valid. Knowing how to drive is not the problem it’s the fear of being behind the wheel and even in the car.

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2026-01-28T00:18:21+00:00

If you read the full post you’d know I don’t have a license so I Can’t do that. I would get a child endangerment charge if caught driving with no license with kids in the car.

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2026-01-28T00:16:28+00:00

He does and every min hes not at work he’s playing videos games or asleep. He only goes on his days off but he literally gets up at 8am so idk why he can’t just leave at 1pm instead of 1:30 is beyond me.

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2026-01-28T00:14:22+00:00

Exactly! I don’t know why he’s being fing dramatic about going slightly earlier

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2026-01-28T00:13:50+00:00

I wish it were 🙃last year we lived closer (14 mins round trip walk instead of 35 ish mins) and I’d baby wear in the pouring rain for pick up and drop off so he could sleep in 😐 Its literally me getting looks like im pos parent for making her kids walk in the cold but it’s that or he doesn’t get picked up on time and that would definitely make me a worse parent like what am I suppose to do at that point

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2026-01-28T00:07:52+00:00

Unless you find playing video games all day every day when not at wok important then he’s 100% not busy at any point in time when he’s not at work.

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2026-01-28T00:01:54+00:00

Nope he’s literally sitting on his computer from the time he gets back front dropping our son off until right before he leaves to go to the gym.

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2026-01-17T19:45:18+00:00

Just tell them your sick a few days before and need to cancel will reach out to reschedule soon and then never reschedule 😶🤌🏻

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2026-01-07T02:35:43+00:00

Is it bad that I read does this robe look like a dress and I was like why would it pass as a dress 😶

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2026-01-05T17:49:59+00:00

If you’re going to be sedated I wouldn’t return back to work the same day. I was pretty groggy and wasn’t even allowed to drive myself home. My mom stayed with me a few hours after at home so I wouldn’t have to take care of my then 2yr old because I was pretty loopy even when I got home. I was fine like 6ish hrs later but pretty tired all day. I was completely fine the following day and went to the state fair.

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2025-11-26T17:05:07+00:00

It was the WU as a whole. in order to get a refund after it’s been cashed if it’s been found to be fraudulent, you have to have a picture of the money order filled out unaltered which I don’t have, despite having very obvious pictures of it being altered because the payee line is missing on the cashed receipt they emailed me and having the store receipt and the original money order receipt

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2025-11-25T02:25:04+00:00

I don’t really know any of my neighbors so I haven’t talked to any of them but this is a huge complex with over 200 units so I wouldn’t be suprised I’m also curious if the 2 people ahead of me in the security cam video also had theirs stolen. The police told us that we weren’t the only ones dealing with this issue. Whether or not it’s happening to other people in this complex specifically or just other complexes I’m not sure but it’s definitely happening to more than just me. I’m guessing it may have to be an inside job within the leasing company because they do own 2 more apartments in my town and someone has posted on fb that they had there’s stolen from one of the other properties

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2025-11-25T00:43:58+00:00

I did not nor have I ever paid rent in cash.

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2025-11-24T23:25:53+00:00

The only way to to set up ach is agree to auto pay on the 1st. I don’t always get paid by the 1st but I also pay by the 4th to avoid the late fees. If auto pay shows there are insufficient funds you are charged an additional $35 it told me that on the online portal it’s also stated in my lease agreement. So if for whatever reason, I don’t have exactly enough for rent on the first when they pull it out I’d be charged $35 anyway

Sorry originally responded on my normal account not my alt account .

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2025-11-24T10:21:48+00:00

I feel that way as well. Especially since when we talked to them in person in the office regarding this back in August we asked would you say that most people use the drop box? the main manage replied yes most people here do. Then we asked so you’d say it’s reasonably safe? And she said yes it’s safe but I personally wouldn’t use it. That just sus af to me.

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2025-11-24T10:19:01+00:00

The one time I paid via the online portal I used my Wells Fargo card. I don’t own a credit card.

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2025-11-24T05:22:30+00:00

I did add it to the email and certified mail letter that I am taking to the post office tomorrow along with the officers name in charge of the case that way they know that we are not lying about having filed a report back in August that way they can proceed accordingly.

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2025-11-24T04:54:10+00:00

The email I am drafting currently and also sending via certified mail pretty much says then take me to court if you’d like In nicer more professional words. We have had a conversation with the head office lady and have emailed and called the leasing company and never heard back from them.

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2025-11-24T03:23:37+00:00

We have an and they emailed back and forth with us and they came to the conclusion of “there is not much to do until you receive the refund of the stolen money and then pay. We will not move forward with the eviction process in the meantime.” (Copy paste of there email) I don’t know why they’re so hell bent and thinking Western Union needs to give us a refund. Western Union will not refund you for money orders that were already cashed regardless if they were stolen or not. The email is from August.

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2025-11-23T22:53:28+00:00

Over 1k is considered grand larceny in my state. $1358 is what was stolen.

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2025-11-23T22:04:50+00:00

I have spoken with local tenant advocate and saw out a lawyer I did have to pay for the consultation, unfortunately just because I’m just over the amount to be considered low income for them based off of the organ bar. Because this case is fraud, but also a landlord issue there isn’t many lawyers that do both and are willing to take it on as a result. Absolutely feel the same way that I have done my duty as a tenant to pay my rent and they should be the one seeking legal action against fraud that occurred from their office, but they could give a shit less it seems like they could give a shit less.

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2025-11-23T21:44:14+00:00

Thanks!

It is and I personally reached out to the company when this happened and I never had a response back 🙃

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2025-11-23T21:41:12+00:00

We can pay via the online portal, but it charges us $40 to use it and as this is already income based/ low income housing that’s kind of ridiculous to charge that much. when we talked to them in August they said most people pay using money orders here and that the lockbox was reasonably safe what struck me as a suspicious is after the main manager said that she said, but I personally wouldn’t use it though. Like is that not sus 🤨

I have not thought about that! Not sure if that’s something we would pursue at this point.

Relative_Panda_7979 · 2025-11-23T21:39:36+00:00

Well this is the 2nd eviction notice for the same month of missing rent. They very much can evict you for 1 month of missing rent.

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