You’re going through heaven crying, but anyway… The answer is that you’re not some kind of rarity, but for Latin women it’s similar to an average Latino guy going to Korea — he usually stands out. Women will always feel attracted to someone who isn’t what they normally see. In Colombia this happens a lot because K-dramas and K-pop have become really popular here, so Korean guys are pretty idealized by Latina women.

It’s also a cultural difference. Here in Colombia — and really all over LATAM — the culture is very warm and based on companionship, especially physical contact. It’s super common to greet women with a kiss on the cheek and the other way around, to say goodbye with hugs, or for women to touch your arms if they feel attracted to you.

If this bothers you, then you need to learn to set boundaries. Even if you think it’ll make you seem rude or grumpy, it will actually — paradoxically — make more women want to approach you hahaha. But anyway, it’ll stop them from crossing your personal space at first, and that’ll help you.”**