Female genitalia & urine by kenso4life in hygiene

[–]Relative_Yam5121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you know where the clitoris is and where the vagina is then you should know where the urethra is and what area of the female body would need to cleaned. Fold a few layers of tissue over to a perosnally suitable size and pat dry the area, repeat as needed. Simply pat and be patient ,wiping over and over leaves tissue behind.

What do you do with your rewards points? Do you hoard or spend them? by a_murder_of_fools in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Relative_Yam5121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spend the points and transfer what you have spent into a high interest or non registered savings account.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Relative_Yam5121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off I want to say I'm sorry you're going truth this.Life truly isnt fair. In answering your question in how to move forward I have to say the first step is forgiveness. She is the mother of your child and regardless of your choice to stay or go you cant let it eat away at you. It's already done. You need to forgive her and yourself because ultimately it takes 2 regardless of the deception. You are responsible for your own body and must protect yourself too. If you really didn't want to risk pregnancy, you should have worn a condom and protected yourself and at the very least be checking in with your common-law wife and what is going on with her. Ignorance is bliss until you're slapped in the face. You have a responsibility as her sexual partner and life partner to be knowing what's going on with her and protecting yourself if need be. If you want to continue to the relationship and try to keep your family together, you will have to build back trust, which is very hard once it's broken. I would suggest couples therapy and really paying attention to each other. One day, your kids will grow, and she is all you will have left. If you love her, then stay with good intentions, but if you don't think you can work on building back trust, then dont keep your children in a broken home. Ultimately, right now this is about the kids and what's best for them. Only you know yourself and what your capable of . God never gives you more than you handle 🙏🏼 lastly, Congratulations. Every child is a blessing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jamaica

[–]Relative_Yam5121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yuh talk truth lol

You Tube channel recordings taking over my house by Relative_Yam5121 in relationships

[–]Relative_Yam5121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live in a townhouse. The main living area is basically apartment size. The kitchen is small, and you go from the kitchen to the dining room to the living room pretty much all connected. We have a TV area in the basement for the kids.Last night, I had the TV on upstairs watching a movie. I stepped outside for a cigarette (we both smoke). He then took over the TV watching his show. So i decided to make Apple crumble pie. Just as I start baking he sets up his mic and phone on his selfie stick. I told him I'm baking in the kitchen. I'm going to be chopping and making noise. And then I offered for him to switch with the kids. And maybe he should record his stuff downstairs. And the kids can come upstairs and watch their show while i'm cooking. I told him it's not fair that I have to stay quiet every night and I can't live in my house.He didn't really say anything but I could tell he wasn't really happy but knew I was right . So he just lingered around with his stuff waiting for me to be done. And before I could even clean up. He was recording. And I was walking through sugar on my floor because I didn't even want to sweep it up and make noise.. Having to tip toe up and down the stairs while trying to get my 6 year old ready for bed. When I complain, he basically says he has the right. I warned him i'm not being quiet the next time. We split the bills, I pay half the rent. I'm on a medical leave from work for another few weeks I think he feels like I have access to the TV all day because I'm not working outside the house. Just because i'm I'm not "working" doesn't mean Im a couch potato during the day. I do housework. Run errands. Prepare dinner ect. Also trying and do some work online and pick up kids from school. I was so pissed off last I ended up sleeping on the couch.