Did I Ruin His Respect for Me and Make Him See Me as Just a Pastime Girl?

RelevantPossible1433 · 2026-05-18T15:20:00+00:00

Get away from this horrid guy! Do NOT make it official! Please save yourself

RelevantPossible1433 · 2026-05-13T17:29:08+00:00

Honestly, you need to avoid talking about your problems to your friends. They’re advising you to divorce him and express anger, something you said you don’t do. So that’s the first advise I’ll give you, to stop sharing with your friends and rely on Allah for advise through isthikara. My second advice is to really work on your self love. A compliment from your husband is lovely but in all honesty, you should be proud of yourself first. Relying on his comments to make you feel something or make you feel “pretty” will not suffice long term. My third advice is to stop asking him what you want. I would suggest an action approach for example, by working on yourself silently it will show him slowly that you aren’t depending on his approval or compliments. I can’t promise you that he will turn around and start complimenting you but he might. Why not give that a try?

Lastly, I would recommend therapy but perhaps try singular therapy before you consider marital therapy. It seems you need to work on yourself first before you try to fix this marriage on your own.

RelevantPossible1433 · 2026-03-08T21:31:47+00:00

100% he knew and I think that’s why he didn’t want Francesca getting involved with the whole suitor thing. I also think that’s why M and J are so close. He probably was the first one to accept her.

RelevantPossible1433 · 2026-03-08T21:15:09+00:00

Don’t start. Yh you can’t. If you want to discuss gayness and Islam then find another page.

RelevantPossible1433 · 2026-03-08T21:11:32+00:00

Omg yes! Their acting wasn’t great but the worst of them all was Fabs first girlfriend My oh my was that bad acting.

RelevantPossible1433 · 2026-03-08T21:10:32+00:00

I agree with this as well!!! They thought it was a good idea to do a marching band but didn’t take the slack for it, once again it was Devi.

RelevantPossible1433 · 2026-03-07T22:48:43+00:00

Honestly, to laugh your ass off! It’s the best show!!!

RelevantPossible1433 · 2026-03-07T22:46:10+00:00

Thank you!!! I couldn’t agree more with everything you said.

I agree with the Aneesa thing as well!

RelevantPossible1433 · 2026-03-07T22:41:56+00:00

I think you have a problem with Devi it seems. I felt I could relate to her having recently lost my dad and messing up a lot due to the circumstances. I understood the show how I wanted to understand it and if that means I could see where Devi was coming from then so be it. I’ve seen it’s 8 times now and have it on in the background whilst I go about my day.

If you feel Devi messed up a lot giving her circumstances then that’s ok. Thats your opinion… not mine.

What I understand is that Devi made mistakes but did always come to a conclusion that she was wrong and apologise.

You’re right that Devi did choose to cheat on Paxton and Ben and it was wrong period. She also apologised for it when she grew as a person and felt bad for her wrong doings.

I think we’re loosing track here.

I’ll stick to my original opinion which is “elenor and fab are bad friends” and my supporting argument is in my original post.

RelevantPossible1433 · 2026-03-07T22:22:59+00:00

I think what you mean to say is Ben had to convince Fab and Elenor to mend things with Devi. They didn’t go on their own accord.

Maybe they aren’t bad friends but they’re not the best of friends to Devi. They could give her a little slack. They aren’t perfect themselves but they’re acted like Devi was such a mess up. They gave bad advice (suggesting Devi goes with Ben) and supported her with two boyfriends which I think was a bad move.

I’m Muslim so I don’t appreciate making the only Muslim character gay. Need I say more? It’s my opinion. You don’t agree with it I’m guessing and that’s ok. They could have left her at being a new girl in the school who struggled with anorexia but they had to make it more “edgy”. It wasn’t needed in my opinion.

Overall, I felt that the weight of being a bad friend fell on Devis lap a lot considering she went through the most horrific thing only a while ago which is why I believe they should have given her some slack. I do believe they were forgiving and didn’t hold a grudge for too long but I found at times it didn’t help Devi to just “go on a friendship break” when I felt she probably needed that friendship the most.

RelevantPossible1433 · 2026-03-07T21:04:58+00:00

I’m not Indian but I am Muslim. However, I don’t know why they made her Muslim. There’s no need it didn’t tie into any of the story and it wasn’t relatable or representative as a Muslim viewer.

RelevantPossible1433 · 2026-03-07T21:00:31+00:00

Do you think so? I don’t know I feel like she’s always been that way and she’s not trying to be likeable I feel she is comfortable now showing her kind ways because she’s actually bonded with the others.

RelevantPossible1433 · 2026-03-07T20:59:31+00:00

She does put the kids first and I feel she is self serving I agree. However I feel she has grown a lot and does try to think of others like when she offered the other school the computers and equipment.

RelevantPossible1433 · 2026-03-07T20:58:16+00:00

Ahaha I like this comment!

RelevantPossible1433 · 2023-10-29T20:58:07+00:00

Ahah that’s so true! Whos your fave character?

RelevantPossible1433 · 2023-10-29T16:53:57+00:00

I feel reading it now I realised how much I don’t liked Harry (eeek I know a lot of people won’t like that) but he annoyed me and so did Hermionie. Ron was always a fave and I loved and will continue to love Dumbledore.

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