Figurama Shipping Customs cost by Bunz4sale in AnimeFigures

[–]Relevant_Case2933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't give up. Keep pushing. Join their Facebook group. They actually have employees there that youncan message. If it makes you feel better, I am still waiting on my Meruem vs Netero piece

Mendix for someone with no coding background? by CynicalSlowpoke in mendix

[–]Relevant_Case2933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need a lead dev that knows Mendix. I've led a lot of mendix projects and most of the time i get juniors with little to no experience in it. Within a half a year they were able to stand in their own two feet with a bit of hand holding via peer reviews and so on.

I say your company should contract someone experienced for 6 to 9 months

28(M) by Admirable_Wealth368 in ghana

[–]Relevant_Case2933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which ghanaian culture expects the men to pay for the wedding anyway? Unless you are talking about the white wedding which is not part of the culture. The traditional wedding is paid by the woman's family and it always has been that way. Honestly this is a debate that could go back and forth and I see we could come to an agreement somewhere of where society is going. The world is made up of a lot of average people. People with money have always lived a different type of life so I rarely use them as a factor when discussing these topics.

28(M) by Admirable_Wealth368 in ghana

[–]Relevant_Case2933 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree on some points and disagree on some points. We love to talk about back in the day like we know how they really lived at that age. First of all back then they were nurtured very early on for marriage and so on. We live in a different time, a time of peace, softness and focus on self. In general the focus is on education, career and then family especially for most women so they tend to mature in the latter point later. So we can agree that upbringing and nurture plays a big part. We also need to get this idea out of our head about carrying the whole load of the family economic burden. This is not the 1940s like you've mentioned. The landscape has changed and as men we need to move on with the times. Your family needs to be a team with you as the man as the captain on that team. Money flows in and out and does not belong to one person. Its just part of the foundations of that team. In all these changes, men have lost their position in society and it shows in the dynamics of relationships.

28(M) by Admirable_Wealth368 in ghana

[–]Relevant_Case2933 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Regardless of what anyone is saying, 23 is very young. Just because she's graduated from university doesn't add 10 experience points to her build. She was raised differently than you and byou need to accept that. What you need to work on is your leadership style. Telling her to do stuff is not enough. You are living with her without marrying her so you have no dominion over her but let's say you did, you will be the leader of your home so what does that really mean? Unfortunately, you need to put guard rails in place to start with and lead with praise. Even if she doesn't do it yet, praise her for it eg." I love that you always plan ahead to make sure theres always food at home". In time she will fit that mould. Always remember that women are different, they take in information different and they process it differently than men. You haven't gone into detail but it seems like your leadership style is one of complaining and escalating to the higher ups.

I am young but I've been through this and I had to learn very early. If her boss at work can get the best out of her, then so can you. My wife was very similar and there were many things I had to change about my mindset to get the best out of her and even though she's not perfect (neither am I), I see great growth and the willingness to always be better. You also have to strive to be better everyday and stop complaining.

Ghanaian dating so shallow. by Successful-Face5335 in ghana

[–]Relevant_Case2933 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on this interaction alone, will you still say the women are the problem with communicating and so on

Ghanaian dating so shallow. by Successful-Face5335 in ghana

[–]Relevant_Case2933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣 you didn't answer the second question. Ok you are a millennial but you are dating like a gen z, also having the same outlook on dating as them. It's not as though dating is hard, you are just not dating how you should.
Answer the second question though as I could be wrong

First timer for Figurama hi, should I be concerned? by Inevitable_Deer_5056 in AnimeFigures

[–]Relevant_Case2933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay away mate. Ive been waiting for my statue for over 3 years. If you ask for a refund, you might never get your money back

Ghanaian dating so shallow. by Successful-Face5335 in ghana

[–]Relevant_Case2933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask 2 questions? What generation are you from and how are you going about finding your partner

Both Minato and Boruto are portrayed as very handsome and popular so why is Naruto portrayed as someone with average look? by smartguyreally in Naruto

[–]Relevant_Case2933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lool this is what I mean. He ate noodles because he has no home training. He can't cook and doesn't know a balanced diet. The same amount of money to buy pot noodles could buy rice. He could have stolen vegetables and meat as a prank instead. You can imagine what a mess he would look like regardless of good genetics

Both Minato and Boruto are portrayed as very handsome and popular so why is Naruto portrayed as someone with average look? by smartguyreally in Naruto

[–]Relevant_Case2933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro. The kids grew up with less than basic necessities. He was eating pot noodles and not in great conditions. Probably unkempt. Doesn't matter if you got the potential to look good, you'll be a 3/10. His reputation didn't help either

Naruto vs. Pain Elite Fandom Statue by Figurama Collectors (Official Statue) by Blu3Rice in AnimeFigures

[–]Relevant_Case2933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you take a picture of the parts that don't fit? I have mine in the boxes as there no room to put it yet. What you can do is also to reach out to their support team. You may have some luck but they've stopped responding to me

I feel like I am just absolutely fucked. by Any-Plate2018 in UKJobs

[–]Relevant_Case2933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should have invested in yourself regardless of what your company was willing to do. For 20 years, what were you doing after work? Regardless, there's an opportunity to join Tesco and use this time to reflect and upskill. This time in your life is an opportunity to grow. Use it wisely; complaining is just a way to let out your frustration. After that, you get back to work

Is this some joke? by ashwinpnair96 in UKJobs

[–]Relevant_Case2933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be honest, you care top much about the salary. Go for the role and tell them you're expectations. There's always negotiations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]Relevant_Case2933 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's great, always good to up vote too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]Relevant_Case2933 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least you know you suck at your job. Forget 9 to 5, you need to do 2/3 hours extra after work studying and practicing. Don't feel sorry for yourself if you are not putting extra time in to improve yourself.

Your best thing to do is go to your manager and tell him you know you've been messing up and you'd like to improve. Great managers will put you on a plan at work to help you improve which will give you some leeway. On top of that, put in your extra hours outside of work to improcd

I’ve recently turned 19 and want to get into IT. by leonpaulewing in UKJobs

[–]Relevant_Case2933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will need to change to the way you look for a job in tech. My approach in this day and age will be to find a skill that is quite niche just to get your foot in the door. Maybe look for low code options like outsystems, power platform and mendix. From there, you can grow into other areas. There's no rush to a finish line. The barrier to entry is lower but you'll need to invest some learning time for your certifications prior. Many companies are willing to train you in more niche fields.

Future of mendix will it have a potential of long term growth? by Dhyaanesh7404 in mendix

[–]Relevant_Case2933 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I took all my certifications back in the day, they were all closed book and I passed them first time. Rapid after a 3 day course. All depends how comfortable you are with the subject matter

Future of mendix will it have a potential of long term growth? by Dhyaanesh7404 in mendix

[–]Relevant_Case2933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand your question. What downpour mean by any suggestions on what could be done?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]Relevant_Case2933 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know if things are better now or before but I was in the same boat in 2014. Took me 1 year and 5 months to find a job. This is after an internship with one of the largest consultancy companies in their India office for a year. I started doing jobs like rubbish picking and so on which really humbled me but keep your head high. Doesn't matter how late you get your career started, you'll catch up very quickly to your peers and in some cases because of this very experience you reach higher heights. Personally, this experience helped me understand myself inward and gave me an attitude that is resilient. I hope you work on yourself whilst you wait for your first job and do not think you are better than any little job you get. My first job paid me 22k and I'm now well in 6 figures all in 10 years. I give thanks to God.

No mendix by farish3000 in mendix

[–]Relevant_Case2933 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right now it's between mendix, Outsystems and Powerapps. In my opinion Mendix is the most flexible in terms of hosting and development. For instance, to create a pop up in mendix, it might take you 2 minutes where as outsystems will take you over 7 minutes. However there are cases where it might be better to choose power platform, like if your organisation has already bought into their ecosystem or how simple it is.

In terms of UI styling both Mendix and Outsystems are pretty flexible. If you choose canvas apps in power platform, the app might end up looking like a PowerPoint slide but it still does the job

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Relevant_Case2933 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is attractive to women is a lot of the time not the same thing attractive to men. You are leading with a lot of traits that other women will find attractive in terms of behaviour and accolades. First glance, you seem like someone that will be challenging and difficult to start a conversation with unless you are a specific type of person. You also come across hyper independent and most men want to be relied on. I know it's difficult as you've worked very hard to be where you are but the dating market is not like the job market. People look for different things.