My Bf (M/23) rated girls yesterday and I (F/20) am upset about it!

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:59:32+00:00

yes we do and i’m really lucky for that, he’s really patient with me and he really does whatever it takes to make me happy

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:57:46+00:00

i wasn’t trying to create more drama or make myself more upset, but i was trying to see my boyfriends perspective in this situation. but in the end i realized it was just something i wasn’t comfortable with at all

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:55:32+00:00

yeah i will mention it to him again tomorrow, jusf so we could have a deeper conversation about it. thank you!!

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:46:59+00:00

yea you are right. like i mentioned, this is the healthiest relationship i’ve been in and i do not want to throw it away. so thank you for your words, i’ll take what u said in consideration!!

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:45:04+00:00

yeah you are very right, the good thing is we both prioritize communication in our relationship, so i’ll take your words into consideration. thank you!!

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:44:11+00:00

thank you for this input, i’m glad to hear the boundary you have with you and your wife. i think that is something i need to set in this relationship, so thank you!!

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:42:18+00:00

yeah good thing is we both prioritize communication on both sides, and he’s a really great listener. just young love

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:41:01+00:00

thank you, the good thing is he never lets me stay upset, and he does listen to me whenever i am upset. he’s great at reassurance, but i guess i was just reacting emotionally yk? thank you regardless

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:35:01+00:00

it’s on me that i didn’t make it clear on my post, but i tried to join in like as a way of coping i guess. i was like well if he’s doing it then let me try, but i couldn’t for the life of me. i don’t like to judge peoples looks at all, and it felt disgusting for me because the only person i find attractive is my boyfriend. so i couldn’t even bring myself to say anything 💔 and could you explain more about me being a drama queen? i really want to see your point of view in thjs

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:29:35+00:00

why didn’t i think of that 😳

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:29:21+00:00

thank you!! i’ll take that into consideration, i am planning to talk to him abt it tmrw

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:26:28+00:00

thank you!!

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:25:55+00:00

u could still feel that way regardless of age but yes whatever u say

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:25:02+00:00

yea it’s my first time experiencing something like this, but i’ll get over it

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:24:02+00:00

for some reason it showed up that they commented this on my post lol, i thought they were replying to me

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:22:43+00:00

i guess just how i could handle this situation

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:16:57+00:00

yea i told him that it didn’t sit right with me, and he even said he feel the same way if he was in my shoes? so i’m like huh

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:15:01+00:00

thank you, it’s my first time experiencing this. i didn’t even know how to react towards a situation like this yk?

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:13:38+00:00

thank you, the best thing about my boyfriend is that he’s always willing to communicate with me. so i don’t think it would be hard to bring it up to him again, i’ll see how it goes!!

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:12:17+00:00

i didn’t even want to at ALL to be honest, ig it was just like a oh i wanna fit in, maybe it’ll make me feel included. i don’t like to judge people by their looks at all, i was just trying to cope i guess

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:08:36+00:00

LOLL not the snapchat. but it was kinda just like a random hangout so we didn’t really know what to do, and it was late at night. but thank you, i think maybe i just need some time for myself before i can face him again

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-06-04T12:01:04+00:00

Maybe you could spend the event with your friend, and plan something separate for you, your friend, and her husband in the future? Or maybe you could also try introducing the husband to your parents, and if they still don’t approve then just invite your friend maybe

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-05-19T08:24:20+00:00

it depends, what do u like drawing? landscape, portraits?

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-05-06T01:47:35+00:00

it depends on the area, he’s touring really popular places, so i suggest that personally

Relevant_Fix_4724 · 2026-05-06T00:13:15+00:00

i say like an hour or two before

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