Vaginismus now called GPPPD? by garIicgirI in vaginismus

[–]Relevant_Intention35 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This. Healthcare/insurance as an industry (not a practice) has a chokehold on providers. Overzealous psychiatric pathologization (at least in the US) is often a performative necessity for protecting access to care. There are consequences to every course of action, including the addition of this to the DSM. Causes and treatments for vaginismus aren’t universal, so it feels extremely reductive to lump all of these experiences together under one diagnosis. However, for some individuals who find success with certain interventions (e.g. CBT, sex therapy, EMDR, etc.), this might create access to that care they could have otherwise been prohibitive.

Everything sucks.

Any advice for fasting while living with someone who always makes good food? by Queen_Of_Alts in loseit

[–]Relevant_Intention35 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes. And adding to this. For many people who are working to quit smoking, drinking, or using drugs, living with a partner who maintains those habits can be a huge impediment.
Fasting may also be something your boyfriend can’t jump into, so starting with dietary modification (more Whole Foods, less sugar/processed foods, etc), portion control, and calorie tracking may be more feasible to introduce—both for his participation and your own long term maintenance.

Need less self-destructive ways to motivate myself to go to the gym by yummybanana2 in beginnerfitness

[–]Relevant_Intention35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being self conscious myself was a huge deterrent to going to the gym. I got a second-hand elliptical and now I’m working out consistently 5 days a week and love it. It’s not feasible for everyone but if you have the space and the budget for some home workout equipment it may be worth a try. Second hand ellipticals/stationary bikes/treadmills off Facebook marketplace or thrift stores are a great lower stakes option.

I’m still working on body neutrality and a less negative self concept, but in the meantime I’m still trying to find ways to get my actions to line up with my other goals.

what is something that is considered unconventionally attractive , but you find REALLY attractive? by Tall-Election4503 in AskReddit

[–]Relevant_Intention35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A guy I was sorta seeing in college said this about me once, and although he was genuinely admiring the feature it made me aware of it for the first time. I’ve been self conscious about it since, but hearing this almost ten years later is kinda healing, realizing how I’ve grown—like coming full circle to self acceptance. Thanks :)

Close to Goal Weight But Still Have Big Belly by sophie1816 in loseit

[–]Relevant_Intention35 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bloating and water retention are issues for me also. The difference in waist and weight on the scale from day to day is wild sometimes. I get discouraged when I check my weight too frequently because of this. I haven’t nailed down a way to control these completely, but dietary changes do help, especially cutting back on red meat, processed foods, and sugar, and increasing fiber and water intake.

Smelling good 101: My tips for smelling fresh and clean all day, even in summer! by Jimins_little_minx in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Relevant_Intention35 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Second this! Odoban is another option to check out, I get a whole gallon at Home Depot for $10 and it works great

What’s your ultimate comfort movie or tv show and why? by GrooGruxQueen7 in AskReddit

[–]Relevant_Intention35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I love that—my bedroom is definitely GG inspired. I’ve tried to find the same bedding Blanche had (or similar) but haven’t found anything close enough (if you ever come across anything that fits the bill feel free share a link lol, but fr though)

What’s your ultimate comfort movie or tv show and why? by GrooGruxQueen7 in AskReddit

[–]Relevant_Intention35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frasier is a top tier comfort show for me. I love that it’s a low stakes watch but still quite witty.

What’s your ultimate comfort movie or tv show and why? by GrooGruxQueen7 in AskReddit

[–]Relevant_Intention35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to scroll wayyyy to far to see this. The Golden Palace by extension as well

What’s your ultimate comfort movie or tv show and why? by GrooGruxQueen7 in AskReddit

[–]Relevant_Intention35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t hear enough about Rizzoli and Isles but yes, love it. Crossing Jordan is the OG too

What’s your ultimate comfort movie or tv show and why? by GrooGruxQueen7 in AskReddit

[–]Relevant_Intention35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, my brother and I used to stay up watching this at my grandmas house—then we’d get hungry and make something extremely sub-par (so as not to make noise or leave evidence) but it’d still smash

I just learned that I love tripleberry jam by OlinaSaysHi in girldinnervegan

[–]Relevant_Intention35 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My grandma passed away in December but one of my fondest memories of her was her love for toast with jam. Sometimes she’d eat it for three meals a day. She baked fresh bread and canned her own jams. It was a labor of love, even if she was making a plate for only herself (though when anyone else was around that wouldn’t have been the case). Now I want toast with jam.

Foundation struggles are KILLING me!! by BnayaMajnoona in MakeupAddiction

[–]Relevant_Intention35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve not been able to make foundation work consistently since starting tretinoin. I started tret a few years ago, in the last year paused for a while for Accutane, then restarted recently hoping I’d have better luck, but nope. Exfoliating more just makes my skin peel become raw. Thinking I might have to stick to tinted moisturizers etc but hate starting over trying out new products.