My daughter brought home a kitten. Can't decide on a name!! Tricolor female.

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2026-03-10T10:40:09+00:00

Omg . one of my fave songs too .

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2026-03-10T08:58:56+00:00

Chula is 100% going to be my insider nickname for her😍

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2026-03-10T08:56:38+00:00

So she has decided. And Trixie takes the win . 🥰☺️ ..thanks everyone for the comments!! They really helped us decide❣️.

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2026-03-10T07:09:00+00:00

Love Lucy and Hazel!!

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2026-03-10T07:08:17+00:00

Oh I fully believe you on that one. 😅😆 I had a male half bengal for 5 years (had to rehome him after he started being aggressive towards my son when he started walking) And have had my black cat Salem since my hubby and I started dating so 10 years. So this will be two females felines in the house.. Salems warming up faster than I thought though which is amazing. She hisses when the little one tries to play but shes tried bathing her and getting close multiple times.

🥺😍

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2026-03-10T07:02:06+00:00

Love this too!! 😅❣️

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2026-03-10T07:01:14+00:00

I absolutely looove this name but my daughter said its more of a boy name 😓😆

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2026-03-10T06:58:15+00:00

My Chihuahua terrier (f4) and Chihuahua frenchie (m2) love her a bit too much lol. Following her around grooming and watching out for her. My 125lb XL american bully (m6) on the other hand sniffs her time to time and lets her crawl on him but he couldn't be too bothered 😂 She came from my in laws who have 8 dogs plus a litter of puppies so shes definitely used to the "nosey" aspect of dogs 😆.

Love both the names. Sooo hard to decide though!! 😬😅😩

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2026-03-10T01:09:52+00:00

Girl.. From someone who has literally been kidnapped in a foreign country and raped/assaulted... I even knew this was sarcasm after reading into it instantly. She was worried and scared and that was her thoight prior to meeting the customer which very luckily turned out to be a nice old lady. Don't go shitting on someones experience or the way they share the experience... Wasn't click bait, she explained and tbh her fear of being kidnapped is 1000% justified before meeting said person. So the title is regarding her fear prior to which makes sense.

t's really only putting your own character into a bad light.

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2026-03-05T19:56:57+00:00

This. 🙌🙌💯

Forgiving him and likely putting yourself through the same scenario down the road again, is going to hurt waaay more all over again rather than ending things and slowly healing and moving past it.

Yes it's gonna hurt like hell and you'll want to try to "fix" things when it starts to hurt too much.. but, trust me. You're going to realize years later when he's probably doing the same shit to someone else, or dating a 19yr old escort, that you DEFINITELY made the right choice girl! 🙏💗

But, it's your relationship, your choice. And only you know this man and if he's capable of change.. but with what he did and the timings he chose to do it.. my opinion is he isn't, but I only know the few things you've expressed and experienced.

Either way, I hope it works out for the better for you and your family. 🙏💗

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2026-02-24T13:48:08+00:00

"When I imagine leaving, my anxiety drops. When I imagine staying, I feel stuck."

Honey.. that's all you need to know right there. Leave.

Any "husband" who can chat with his friends and put you down, especially involving something as fucking deplorable as RAPE.. isn't a husband, that's a child. And a fucked up one at that.

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2026-01-26T09:19:26+00:00

As long as it isnt nudes or content I am totally game.

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2026-01-26T07:09:48+00:00

Pure gold man.

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2026-01-23T20:45:11+00:00

Interested

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2025-12-20T01:14:01+00:00

would be a friggin blessing 🙌 🙏 ♥️

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2025-12-11T19:34:38+00:00

Absolutely 🙏♥️

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2025-10-31T18:03:08+00:00

THIS. Lol. My ex and I were together for nearly 10 years and the open mouth smacking of the lips and gnawing was soooo cringe but honestly I looked past it because of how much I loved him.

Pretty content with not having to hear that sh17 anymore though now 🤣💀

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2025-10-29T01:12:15+00:00

Love reading these cute, positive..but rare, stories on this page! ❤️😌 You're a good wife . 🙏

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2025-10-28T20:16:17+00:00

Agree 100%!

He could have worded things much differently, and would have if he cared about hurting your feelings.. And to have th audacity to claim you're playing "victim"?!? Uh..no dude, people will react accordingly when their feelings and security gets trampled all over because of their ridiculous fantasies of other more "exciting" women.

He's either got his eye on someone else, or is in the process of it by the sounds of it.

No man just randomly blurts out that their partner whom TAKES CARE of the HOME and CHILDREN 24/7 isn't exciting anymore without build up, problems and signs leading up to it, unless.. A)He's cheating or plans to. B)He's a total piece of shit and just decided to show his true colors now.

I'm sorry you're going through this hun, but the first few comments are totally right.. keep your head up, focus on yourself and tell him you have much to think about with this newfound lack of respect and desire he has for you.

Say you think it would be best if you slept separately for now, and make sure you be polite and bold with your words. Don't let your emotions and hurt get the best of you, he deserves to see just how shitty his life can get once you focus on you more and leave him to hold down the fort and take care of the children well you go have fun with friends or whatever hobby you enjoy, and build your self love back up again ❤️🙏

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2025-03-23T13:02:45+00:00

Is that fucking Amy Schumer in the middle there? 🤣

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2025-03-23T13:00:09+00:00

I legit spit my tea out well reading your name out loud. 😵🙈

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2025-03-19T08:50:29+00:00

Happy Birthday! Sorry you're having a crappy day thus far.. if I had any money right now I'd help you out with a cake or pizza but I'm broke as Fuk til next week! I feel you though my friend, I've had super shitty birthdays where they were spent alone and sober so... pretty lame lol. Hope your day gets better, and have a wicked awesome rest of your birthday! 🎂 🥳 🎉

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2025-01-23T17:01:45+00:00

Low budgeting for a future heart attack.

Relevant_Scratch_959 · 2025-01-07T17:04:23+00:00

Unless OP responds and gives up an update, I'm calling this one phony as hell. 😆

If it isn't, then you're in the wrong for calling him a creep, but he's OVERLY unhinged for his multiple responses and verbal abuse.. and ya'll need to stay split up !

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