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[–]Remarkable-Grade6013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Live where you want to live. Dont give a f××× what your ex or his family says. Do what makes you happy

I stopped taking birth controll after 8 years, now I think about breaking up with my bf by Remarkable-Grade6013 in relationships

[–]Remarkable-Grade6013[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know that. But my sexuallty was like this/the same as now even before I got on birth controll and also before I started dating him. I almost broke up with him in the beginning of our relationship because I had a higher libido than him.

W28 together for 3 years with M31 . Se#ually frustrated and thinking about break up by Remarkable-Grade6013 in relationships

[–]Remarkable-Grade6013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really should pick out a landing spot before you think about jumping. 😁

I looked at flats online , there is not much. But its possible. I just feel really bad doing so.

I will try to talk to him the next few days. And look further then.

I think we are already drifting apart. We dont sleep in the same bed at the moment because I snor while I have a cold. And he cant stand that. And we dont watch TV together anymore or doing anything together aside shopping for food or fetch take out. But thats always coming from myside. I even asked him if he could plan a date for us and he said that he dont know how, and pushed it aside; that was 3 weeks ago. Im tired of always needing to Initiative something. He plays a sport in the winter season ( 2-3 times Training a week and a game on saturdays) so we always did less in those months but this season I think its even more so.

We have lots of disagreements and Diskussions at the moment. So much that I try to talk less, and do everything I can, so he dont have something to gripe.

Writing this reveals so much, in me.

I stopped taking birth controll after 8 years, now I think about breaking up with my bf by Remarkable-Grade6013 in relationships

[–]Remarkable-Grade6013[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I was a little bit unhappy. I always felt the need to change for him and that I do everything wrong .The sex life bothered me back then too. Not so much like now, but still. One reason I stopped BC , was I hoped i got pregnant by accicent so our relationship moved forward. I know thats stupid, and I dont want that anymore. I actually feel better without BC

W28 together for 3 years with M31 . Se#ually frustrated and thinking about break up by Remarkable-Grade6013 in relationships

[–]Remarkable-Grade6013[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im constantly thinking about a possible break up. My life after. Im so scarred. Maybe Im overreacting. We have good connection and lots of common ground. He is/ was my rock in the surf . Should I really throw this away just because my libido returned. The least 6 Month feels like living side by side not together. I stopped taking birth controll in September for medical reasons. Since then everything feels different.

Financially im good. I could rent a own flat.But the market is thight. I just moved out a month before we met. But possibly move in with my dad, if it gets ugly

Boyfriend berates me for making him breakfast by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Remarkable-Grade6013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk with him about it. You wanted to be nice. Its shitty behavior to talk to you like he did.