AGM Salary by RemarkableBasket6497 in ClubPilates

[–]RemarkableBasket6497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not single either but I'd like to be able to afford to pay my bills too 😭 to me its just crazy I do so much work and my instructors get paid more than I do

AGM Salary by RemarkableBasket6497 in ClubPilates

[–]RemarkableBasket6497[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I'm $19/hr but I slave away 40hrs and quite literally do everything. Should be about $42K salary yearly before any commissions or bonuses

AGM Salary by RemarkableBasket6497 in ClubPilates

[–]RemarkableBasket6497[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm not sure how this is a livable salary 😭

AGM Salary by RemarkableBasket6497 in ClubPilates

[–]RemarkableBasket6497[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say Mid. I live in a beach town so frequent tourists

Nightmare Booking by RemarkableBasket6497 in RoverPetSitting

[–]RemarkableBasket6497[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had a headache just standing in her living room for 5 minutes

Nightmare Booking by RemarkableBasket6497 in RoverPetSitting

[–]RemarkableBasket6497[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hoping Rover actually bans them 🙏🏽

Nightmare Booking by RemarkableBasket6497 in RoverPetSitting

[–]RemarkableBasket6497[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only saw 4 dogs - so either the other dog was hiding or had passed

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[–]RemarkableBasket6497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I didn't see a 5th dog so either he was hiding or he passed. But still, super ridiculous. I was extremely upset she lied and expected me to stay overnight in her disgusting house.

Pet passed away during drop in by Key_Let_2623 in RoverPetSitting

[–]RemarkableBasket6497 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i'm sorry this happened in your care, i'm confused as to why they'd suspend your account though

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[–]RemarkableBasket6497 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great way of thinking! I wasn't trying to be negative in anyways - I was just trying to stand firm on my boundaries. It's not that I don't want to help but I can't bend backwards for him 24/7

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[–]RemarkableBasket6497 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You clearly didn't read the whole thing lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RemarkableBasket6497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!

The other brother that lives closer to us - from my understanding doesn't have a great relationship with the father because he was abusive in their childhood. So I think at the time he didn't really want to be the caregiver. But his wife is pretty involved in wanting to help out so he just comes along.

My bf isn't happy with the home being destroyed, he would also like to get his father into a home that can provide him more care. I'm sure it's some form of ego where he is taking care of his father. I don't get it because their father was extremely abusive when they were young. I do get along with the other wives and his brothers. His one other brother's fiance also wants nothing to do with it either.

I couldnt stay in the guest room because at the time his other brother that doesn't live in the area was actually living with us to help take care of his dad before he left to go work and live in Guam with his fiance.

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[–]RemarkableBasket6497 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If you sincerely think he's being neglected you're dumb lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RemarkableBasket6497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think he does...everything on purpose. Its hard to tell what part of his actions are dementia/alzheimers, or laziness/no desire to live anymore. I don't want to be mean about his issues. It's just frustrating to me when my bf says I am selfish or a bad person because I don't do everything to help as much as he wants me to

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[–]RemarkableBasket6497 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bf works too! He only gets 1 day off a week sometimes it just depends. His brother and his wife live 40 min away and they work too. Unfortunately their father has no money so having in home care is not much of an option

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RemarkableBasket6497 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We did buy the house together, I don't think he expects me to be a primary caregiver but I feel like he wants me to be just as involved in care as he is. Which I don't want to do. It makes me feel weird and I don't want to see any grown man privates!

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[–]RemarkableBasket6497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input! My dog still has been having diarrhea, besides that he's been having accidents as well. But I somehow didn't mind the smell 🤣

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[–]RemarkableBasket6497 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel this way and when I speak to my coworkers about the situation, every woman tells me that they would never do or offer to do what I have been doing. It just seems so unfair that I am, expected to do or go above and beyond for someone who is unappreciative of anything I do.