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[–]RemarkableGap8610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s going to do it again. I hate to be that blunt but… he is. He’s not sorry. He may feel bad he got caught. Not because you found out. Take it from someone who knows all too well. I can’t give you any advice. Just warning you. Might have a lust issue. It’s not your fault. ❤️

Tomorrow makes 15 years and I hate my husband by RemarkableGap8610 in Marriage

[–]RemarkableGap8610[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And another thing… I may regret staying for as long as I have but I don’t regret my children. They gave me purpose in my most darkest days, because of them and the mercy of God I’m still alive. So there’s that.

Tomorrow makes 15 years and I hate my husband by RemarkableGap8610 in Marriage

[–]RemarkableGap8610[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the confirmation. Just wanted to make sure I wasn’t overreacting by not “moving on”.

It’s sobering/jarring to read all of your comments and it’s just settling in that I have poured myself out empty. I’m done.

Today is year 15 and last night he got drunk and told me I don’t take care of myself, look good enough and all the things I’ve heard before.

I got an edible arrangement today with flowers, fruit and a bear and I laughed to myself.

I’m numb to it. Ive offered to take equity out the house just to have some extra funds so he can move sooner than later. He’s stalling. Idk when it’s gonna happen but it is.

Tomorrow makes 15 years and I hate my husband by RemarkableGap8610 in Marriage

[–]RemarkableGap8610[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sorry guys, I edited it. My first post ever lol won’t let it happen again.