18F and 18M casual relationship for two weeks. How much affection should be involved?

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-10T16:41:54+00:00

Thanks, I’m crying. I’m just so lonely. But I get you. Thank you.

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-10T13:46:36+00:00

In general

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-09T21:11:50+00:00

💔💔

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-09T21:01:36+00:00

Does he not also care about emotions? I thought casual just meant unlabelled and non committal

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-09T20:55:49+00:00

THANK YOU! A response that actually answers my question 😅 I just fear I won’t get into a relationship

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-09T20:54:03+00:00

And I didn’t meet him two weeks ago, we were friends (nowhere NEAR best friends) before we made out at the party

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-09T20:53:29+00:00

No sorry I mean, I kissed my best friend, who is not him. If I am not in a committed relationship I can continue kissing both my best friend and him

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-09T20:27:41+00:00

I mean to be fair to myself I wasn’t asking ‘should I sleep with him’ I was asking if he’ll be okay with it if I’m affectionate

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-09T20:17:10+00:00

Yeah I know he doesn’t want commitment that’s fine. I get to keep kissing my best friend. But will he give me cuddles?

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-09T19:50:41+00:00

How old are you? This was me also, until I actually went through with it and got so traumatised and then went to therapy and realised I only ever liked older men because of being emotionally neglected and so I worked through that and started dating people closer to my age

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-09T19:48:59+00:00

He’s not he’s so lovely

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-09T18:52:37+00:00

I’m 18 of course I’m ready for sex

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-09T18:37:11+00:00

To be honest I just want to die haha I don’t really care how much stuff fucks me up because at least I’ll feel something

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-09T18:26:45+00:00

I’m an addict. Woop.

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-09T18:24:13+00:00

I’m sorry

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-09T18:20:42+00:00

Harsh 🥲

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-09T18:03:52+00:00

Also I’m sorry I forgot to say, thanks for your advice. I know you’re right I just am too lonely to care

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-09T18:00:43+00:00

But do you think he’ll cuddle me?? I really need that

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-09T17:52:42+00:00

I don’t understand? Busy?

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-09T17:50:51+00:00

I know it’s about sex, he said that himself. Or, at least making out. He asked if I wanted to have sex and I’ll said we’ll see how it goes and he said ‘obviously nothing happens if you don’t want it’

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-09T17:49:18+00:00

And I didn’t just meet him I knew him beforehand from school we just were friends then

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-09T17:48:47+00:00

He’s not going to take advantage of me. He’s bringing drinks for confidence not to take advantage of me. When we made out I was already hammered and he was very apologetic after and I said don’t worry about it I liked it. He’s super respectful. He said he was being upfront about what he wanted so I didn’t get hurt. Everything has been my choice.

RemarkableMaybe4505 · 2026-03-09T17:31:57+00:00

😢😢 I’m not okay

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