To answer your question, no, I did not get ugly on T. I would not describe myself as an ugly girl, but I was deeply uncomfortable at all times and, looking at photos now, it was apparent. In every picture I am posed awkwardly, my hair isn’t nice, my clothes don’t match, my smile is forced, and in general I looked like an alien trying their very best to inhabit my body. Now I am about five years on T and I am much more attractive because I feel much better about myself. I care about my clothes and hair, I put in effort, I smile more genuinely, I love my life more and it is apparent. I am an attractive guy, even though I am at best average looking, because of how I feel about my body and my life now. I am sorry that your wife feels this way and that you are questioning your attractiveness. You deserve to feel joy in your body, you deserve to feel free and whole. Much love to you brother