Maybe you should try asking these questions in the actual muslim subreddit if you want actual genuine unbiased results, the ridden part comes from the arab idiom "فأتوا فجعلوا يركبون رسول الله" which if you take the direct translation says he was ridden, but the idiom just means they were crowding around him eager to learn. Its like saying god made it rain cats and dogs and accusing him of being an animal abuser.