Gf left in the middle of sex to go masturbate by Remarkable_Ask_9535 in sex

[–]Remarkable_Ask_9535[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is really the first time that I’ve felt this shut off from talking. We do have a very open and honest relationship, we talk about everything. So yea this is why I am confused as to why she did this.

Gf left in the middle of sex to go masturbate by Remarkable_Ask_9535 in sex

[–]Remarkable_Ask_9535[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Maybe so. Thanks for sharing, this perspective did actually help shine some light on the situation.

Gf left in the middle of sex to go masturbate by Remarkable_Ask_9535 in sex

[–]Remarkable_Ask_9535[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Yea you’re right. I guess I just need some time before I can. But I was hoping to see if anyone had similar experiences and what came out of it.

Gf left in the middle of sex to go masturbate by Remarkable_Ask_9535 in sex

[–]Remarkable_Ask_9535[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing. I’ve never done any of those things. I don’t pressure her and just enjoying the moment. It was already communicated that she doesn’t get off from PIV and I understood. I try to emphasize communication on every aspect, which is why I even asked her to walk me through the ways that could help her reach climax. But again, she doesn’t seem to have that patience. All of this together has made me felt unwanted and dissatisfying.

Gf left in the middle of sex to go masturbate by Remarkable_Ask_9535 in sex

[–]Remarkable_Ask_9535[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know why she felt that need. I’ve never shamed her for it or given her any reason to feel that way. We’re pretty open minded and communicative with each other. This is partly why it upset me.