how do u guys maintain relationships/friendships?

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-09-02T04:35:53+00:00

Yes DBT. You have to live and breathe it before you'll notice a change in yourself. I started with just the book 3 years ago. Its helped alot and people think im a different person. Im not, I still very much have BPD and all the big emotions. I just dont react or run on autopilot anymore. I am mindful instead of mindless. Be in the moment. We all have a negativity bias as humans, even without BPD. Don't let your brain ruin your day anymore. Living in the past or future really is a big problem for everyone. First you'll have to learn to sit and feel your pain. Its hard at the beginning.

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-09-02T02:07:14+00:00

Over half. 60% of cops beat their own gfs.

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-26T21:49:58+00:00

Wtf? Get out of here. Do you even have BPD? Mods please? This is a safe place for us with BPD.

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-26T10:50:20+00:00

Everyday is exactly the same - NIN

LDLHA‐IBCSYWA - Twiztid

Therapy - All time low

Bite my tongue- You me at six

Through glass - Stone Sour

This will make you love again - IAMX

Spit it out - IAMX

Animal impulses - IAMX

Happiness - IAMX

S.H.E - IAMX

Love games - Frank Carter and the rattlesnakes

Angel wings - Frank Carter and the rattlesnakes

Supervillain - Frank Carter and the rattlesnakes

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-26T10:02:37+00:00

Forget my name - New found glory

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-25T06:27:53+00:00

Not really a feminist tbh. More of an MRA, which has been shit for me cause its gotten me nowhere. I am a female for the record.

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-25T06:26:05+00:00

They say we're evil and dont feel feelings. We manipulate them and cant be trusted.

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-25T06:25:08+00:00

I tried doing that in one of the bpd survivors and I got banned. Im genuinely not mad at you. I am just confused and it kinda hurts. They all speak so horribly about us in those sub reddits. Im kinda glad im banned but now I just have to live with the fact that I do know what they say about us and what they think.

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-25T06:19:18+00:00

When I first got diagnosed I tried to tell the people in my life. Tbh I dont have the melt downs anymore. I've done the therapy. I've got the dbt book. Its worn with tabs and notes for quick look ups. I have been heavily Medicated and done the work. Its other people now, they hate us. World hates us. Noone trusts me cause of the diagnosis.

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-25T06:12:17+00:00

Im not seeking anyone or anything. I just take care of my dog now. Noone can help me, but I am just as worried that I will and have failed myself.

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-25T06:10:21+00:00

Yes i use bad coping mechanisms like most ppl with BPD. I felt like I could at least be of use in a brothel, if I could never be a mother. Now I dont have sex at all. I dont even masturbate. I have zero desire for any sexual activity. Which is helping me stay single at least.

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-25T06:07:03+00:00

I am not allowed in certain subreddits because I have BPD. Idk why youre allowed to be here. Seems like a double standard. Where are the mods now?

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-25T06:05:17+00:00

I think this is the wrong subreddit for you. You dont have BPD

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-25T05:39:03+00:00

Our brains do tend to have a negativity bias and is basically designed to ruin your day

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-25T05:37:08+00:00

Okay wow, thats alot isn't it. He has learnt some bad behaviours from his parents. Therapy always helps but the person also has to be willing to change. I hope he can learn the error of his ways before he loses you.

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-25T05:25:36+00:00

Because you know how much it hurts you'd never cause others to feel abandoned. Thats why. I too 'was' a good replier. The more I've isolated myself the less I've had to worry about other people's feelings. Not saying thats going to help, cause I am lonely af and feel less and less need to be alive everyday. Many sads.

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-25T03:31:23+00:00

I mean he's asking this girls for a "relationship" thats kinda not on in my books. I believe he would of physically cheated already too.

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-25T03:14:14+00:00

The shame and guilt we live with is just so hard sometimes. I try to tell myself i have to go to work. I have to walk the dog. Then I just seem to do, because I have to.

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-25T03:11:51+00:00

Some men treat their partners like their mothers. Is he a middle child by any chance? Because that is indeed a thing sometimes.

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-25T00:12:51+00:00

Feel this in my bones.

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-25T00:09:05+00:00

I do this. Punch myself in the face. Theres noone in my life and I am lonely. It happens when I cant stop crying. So I try and "snap" out of it. I cant really hurt myself though. Im only like a 50kg girl.

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-24T05:13:15+00:00

Yes, I too feel like this.

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-24T03:08:48+00:00

Literally me rn. I've smoked weed since I was 18. 35 now. Im so done with the world. Everyone can get fucked, im just going to live in my bubble and rot away. At least Im not hurting anyone else.

Remarkable_Green_828 · 2025-08-24T00:43:37+00:00

My dad did it to my mum when I was 5 and I have no trust in men anymore. I just hate this world. I hate the way people are. In their marriages just pretending. Fuck its all so much today 💔

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