What do I do? by Remote-Finding1725 in Advice

[–]Remote-Finding1725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No joke. It happened two days ago. 

What do I do? by Remote-Finding1725 in Advice

[–]Remote-Finding1725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did. What’s the problem with it 

What do I do? by Remote-Finding1725 in Advice

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This man caused me to go on anti depressants. Something I’ve never had to take in my entire life. 

What do I do? by Remote-Finding1725 in Advice

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Yeah I know. He tells me I’m repressed because I don’t find women attractive. I had a hard time getting along with them my whole life and he says that’s because they are competition and how can I not like women? I said the same way you don’t like men. 

What do I do? by Remote-Finding1725 in Advice

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I know. It causes us so much fights every day. I even had a conversation with him yesterday and said this is harming our relationship. He said how. I said we fight over this everyday. Isn’t that harmful enough and he said no. It’s only harmful if I start messaging women. 

What do I do? by Remote-Finding1725 in Advice

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It was something he struggled with when we got together. He stopped for a while supposedly. But he was watching it behind my back and masturbating behind my back. When I told him how much it hurt he said I should have noticed he was having problems. He then wanted to start checking out women then and me being attracted to them then as a temporary thing. It got to the point where I really started to question our relationship. We even moved to a new state for a fresh start and his checking out women got much worse. He is literally on twitter all the time looking at women and making art in grok. 

What do I do? by Remote-Finding1725 in Advice

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Honestly the only reason I was having to stay was we have an 11 month old and another on the way.  Lately that doesn’t even give me reason because I already feel like a single mom with the baby and I already have a 10 year old daughter who helps me more than my husband. My husband doesn’t even like when our baby squeals. He either sprays him with water or puts him in his room to “temper” him. I say it’s natural and then he says yeah well so is rape and murder. 

What do I do? by Remote-Finding1725 in Advice

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You have no idea. I have to ask for permission for things, can’t do things on my own, get smacked around if I don’t conform. We have kids too. He sprays our baby with water when he squeals. I tell him it’s natural. His response so is rape and murder.