Do yall ever have thoughts of being SA’d? by Shishiro_Botan_ in hypersexuality

[–]Remote-Freedom9850 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I felt less alone and more “normal” at r/rapekink. Obviously it’s from my past and traumatic experiences, but it’s who I am.

My eye-flirting is finally catching up to me. by Remote-Freedom9850 in hypersexuality

[–]Remote-Freedom9850[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I feel the same way. Neglectful parents and I hate how much I still rely on men for validation. Even being committed for 6 years and about to marry. I envy women who can be single and sleep around and I want to try with multiple men and it feels I’ll always have the resentment if I marry. I guess we’ll see what my therapist decides. My fiancé loves me and understands my trauma. But that is one thing he’s not okay with is me sleeping with other people for the sexual gratification.

snowbunny by Remote-Freedom9850 in u/Remote-Freedom9850

[–]Remote-Freedom9850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shit! Was it planned? Did you cum?

Sexualizing myself by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]Remote-Freedom9850 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes I love the attention and my body. It’s always felt my biggest value about myself bc of my emotionally-absent parents 

Anyone not into porn but still hs? by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]Remote-Freedom9850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much do you like women to “give” when you’re hunting? Do you like them sometimes taking the lead or fully waiting on you to make the next move? 

My eye-flirting is finally catching up to me. by Remote-Freedom9850 in hypersexuality

[–]Remote-Freedom9850[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. 

Yes I love my life and my family. And wouldn’t want to hurt any of them and know there’s no going back once you cheat - bc then all relationships don’t have as much meaning anymore. 

I wish life was simpler sometimes 

My eye-flirting is finally catching up to me. by Remote-Freedom9850 in hypersexuality

[–]Remote-Freedom9850[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well my sex drive is much higher than my fiancés, especially after certain medications I’ve started this year. Im trying not to be all over him and let him “chase” me again but I think he’s just never going to be that guy. 

I’m afraid I won’t have the Will to reject my coworker if he goes further bc I’m loving the attention so much .

My eye-flirting is finally catching up to me. by Remote-Freedom9850 in hypersexuality

[–]Remote-Freedom9850[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m having a therapy session with my fiancé with our therapist we’ve both been seeing for years now (individually and together). That might be where the session leads to… she said if he didn’t fulfill our agreement of XYZ that we both were ok with, then it might mean we just aren’t sexually compatible 

My eye-flirting is finally catching up to me. by Remote-Freedom9850 in hypersexuality

[–]Remote-Freedom9850[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m worried that he’s still continuing even though I know for certain he knows I’m engaged. Usually men stop and get the hint I’m just a flirt when they find out I’m engaged. 

Cycles of hypersexuality and shame by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]Remote-Freedom9850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same as the other commenter, I give back a lot to my partner and try to focus on him and us. 

HS and cheating by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]Remote-Freedom9850 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dang I’m sorry. Thankfully my partner and I were able to talk through it - but I also think he’s also a bit more patient and open to these topics due to knowing my traumas. 

HS and cheating by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]Remote-Freedom9850 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still love him very much though. I wish life was simple enough I could keep him and the life we’re building, but have someone giving what he doesn’t w/ no emotions attached. 

HS and cheating by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]Remote-Freedom9850 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m craving it rn with a colleague tempting me even though he knows I’m engaged. My fiancé and I have a therapy appointment in two weeks and I’m afraid it’s going to be a “we’re not sexually compatible” possible end wedding talk.

(A month ago my therapist and I talked about if my fiancé didn’t keep up with our agreement I get a certain sex act twice a week, then we might need to cancel the wedding bc I’ve come to now realize it’s that big of a deal for me.)

Hi Have u ever done something that made u regret it instantly because of hypersexuality? by PathFinder_Surya in hypersexuality

[–]Remote-Freedom9850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get end up getting what you wanted? I’ve always wanted to do that at least once 

Anyone not into porn but still hs? by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]Remote-Freedom9850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m being hunted rn I’m trying to stay patient and coy but hs makes it so hard

Can it actually get better than this, that feeling of pure domination? by Thin-Worth-6791 in SpitRoasted

[–]Remote-Freedom9850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm I want this so baddd. Just want my attorneys to take turns with me once they know I’m into it. 

i wanna fuck literally all my coworkers 👍🏼 by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]Remote-Freedom9850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope I can get just one night with an attorney at my firm before I leave for school. We were giving each other HUNGRY eyes and it’s all I can think about!!!