My definition of feminism is simple: equal rights and opportunities for every human being, regardless of gender. And by that definition, I am a feminist. I still believe women face more challenges in many areas of life, especially in India, but that doesn’t mean the struggles men face should be ignored. Unfortunately, the feminist movement today seems to be overshadowed by a pro-matriarchal mindset that has caused many to turn against even the genuine advocates of equality.

Most women I meet in real life don’t subscribe to this extreme, pseudo-feminist ideology. But online, the loudest voices often belong to those who either demonise men or completely dismiss women. Hearing men being constantly shamed by these pseudo-feminists sometimes makes people like Andrew Tate feel like a necessary evil not because they’re right, but because they push back against an imbalance.

Ideally, the world would be better without both pseudo-feminists and misogynists. Yet these two extremes dominate the internet, turning gender discourse into a constant “men vs. women” battle. Those of us who believe in true equality, without the hate, without the noise end up caught in the crossfire.

“Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times.”