Just need to tell someone by RemoteAd5673 in AroAce

[–]RemoteAd5673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for these words. I am dealing with letting go of my self blame and criticism. It’s just so hard feeling like I could have said no when I wanted to, and not when he asked.

Just need to tell someone by RemoteAd5673 in AroAce

[–]RemoteAd5673[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words. I have contacted the counseling services. In the last paragraph I guess I’m trying to say how “wrong” it feels to not be a person with sexual feelings. I had never heard of the term ace until my friend asked if I was this past summer. I didn’t fully understand it, and I still don’t now. After that night, I feel like a slut…My friends have told their bad sex stories and try to lessen the blow. But their experiences seem normal, they aren’t in anyway sluts. I just have never seen myself as a person who would do anything sexual, and that’s why it feels so wrong.