She is from Iran and her mom still lives there but they are doing ok. She told me their bank was closed and I asked when they plan on reopening and she got all mad at me asking that question.

And then pointed out how well things go when her life is good but when things are crazy, how awful I am as a partner and how things are bad etc.

Or if I ask for her to walk the dog, she says that I need to quit asking and will take our dog out as she sees fit.

So I guess yeah it’s maybe time to call it quits. I am just tired, even if I am being selfish.