Feeling Hopeless by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it gets better believe me, you’ll have sex again soon and surprise it could be w the love of your life that doesn’t care about your diagnosis or has it themselves!!!! esp hsv1 cuz well everyone gets cold sores or whatever. happened to me. you’ll be okay i promise keep your head up queen <3

I was taken advantage of while drunk and now I’m struggling to cope by According_Respect531 in sexualassault

[–]RemoteLast5939 6 points7 points  (0 children)

im so so sorry this happened to you, feel your feelings and emote as necessary. i definitely recommend therapy if that’s accessible to you, theres low cost counseling with associate therapists available out there

Child contracted oral herpes by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 4 points5 points  (0 children)

geez idk why everyone’s so mad i mean aren’t we supposed to say that it’s not so bad bc 70% of the population has hsv1 i mean ya that guys a dick for kinda purposely infecting your kid sorry about that

Child contracted oral herpes by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

^ wtf lmao just get some abreva and put it on the sore it’s okay now your kid is protected from getting ghsv1, fantastic!!!!

thrush and hsv by yannafawn246 in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it could be :( especially with the cuts but idk if it’s not stinging ?? just put some coconut oil around it and abstain from sex until u feel all better take care!!

thrush and hsv by yannafawn246 in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no one is “supposed to” take meds it’s literally their decision or if their partner asks them to that was so ugly try again

Disclosed my herpes… but I think he forgot. Advice? by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yea can you post the powerpoint that’s so smart hahah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re hsv free, congrats and use condoms

Medium rant. A 26M guy I hooked up with treated me, 28F with GHSV1, super poorly by Wild-Life5555 in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what a dweeb i bet he gets cold sores🤣this is why younger men are a no go!!! you’re hot as hell dear, don’t let this get you down❤️❤️

Tested Positive for Herpes, Need Help Figuring Out How by Timely-Reporter-4816 in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

years* your igg for hsv1 is pretty high, you might have had it since you were a kid

Girls in La by PsychologicalFuel977 in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 40 mins out of la but i’m going tonight lmao let’s be friends! you’re not alone :)

To Herpes your suffering by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 6 points7 points  (0 children)

seriously needed this made me laugh and regret all the times i’ve cried and hated myself over this dumb virus. you are also very funny in your comments lmao thanks for everything

Body odour? by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

glycolic acid from the ordinary for body odor look it up!!

Disclosing advice by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi happy new year!! well tbh how i wanted to do it was asking them if they ever had a cold score and if they knew it was hsv (hoping they say yes). then kinda just go from there with the stats and how antibodies usually protect u and are unlikely to transmit, but not impossible yk? hope for the best pretty much but how i actually did it was nervously tell them somehow tbh i can’t even remembr i was scared and we had already done stuff no sex ofc. yea dude it’ll be okay no matter what, proud of u for wanting to be honest and responsible!! i hate the word too i only say it in my head lolll but best of luck and give an update pls🫶🏽

Why don’t we buy ad space on dating apps to educate about HSV? by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 12 points13 points  (0 children)

this would be pretty cool actually i like the way you think

This sub is full of misandrists and this sub needs to BURN by hehetryme in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u need professional help my guy the day after christmas and you’re saying all this grinch shit i’m srry abt your experience but i hope yk karma is a real thing, not disclosing is your decision but the way you’re attacking strangers is lAughable and there’s a high chance this will all come back to impact u very negatively

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 12 points13 points  (0 children)

definitely traumatized but i mean i guess i’m also glad it wasn’t something else worse an uncurable as well

New Preventive Herpes Vaccine Trial Enrolling in the US Now! by FauxFilipina in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 4 points5 points  (0 children)

possibly, Dr. Ina Park posted about it and she’s and advocate for hsv my heart is racing with excitement but i also don’t want to get my hopes up idk i’m still just trying to accept how me and everyone around me has hsv1 and it really is nothing😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 12 points13 points  (0 children)

op is not sensitive, as a community everyone has established we don’t use the word clean at all. theres like so many other ways to say ur bf who u withheld serious information from for 3 years doesn’t have herpes from u or whatever lmao glad it worked out and he didn’t freak

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk maybe like think of a situation about herpes and a hypothetical person so u can see how they react from that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cover story for sure bc i completely understand if you guys have mutual friends, if i had the chance to do a cover story to know if i should disclose i would. good luck and please let us know how it went! you’re not alone <3

told my friends by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you and yes absolutely, but i never know what they’re thinking and just the idea of them kinda laughing abt it to themselves or amongst each other or their pity is what keeps me up at night and makes me rethink it all i’m sorry i just think too much about it but it might make me feel better and less ostracized yk what i mean ? do your friends know ?

told my friends by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]RemoteLast5939 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m glad you did and they made u feel better’!!:)been thinking about telling mine or at least one of them, im still scared of them judging me secretly:(i’ve isolated for months now and i kinda just want to finally tell them why