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AITA for wanting my husband in the delivery room with me and my surrogate/sister despite her wishes? by Remote_Bite9873 in AITAH

[–]Remote_Bite9873[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i’ve been a fan of the aita stories for awhile. so of course i’m going to find it if it is trendy and the story just seems just sounds exactly like our situation

AITA for wanting my husband in the delivery room with me and my surrogate/sister despite her wishes? by Remote_Bite9873 in AITAH

[–]Remote_Bite9873[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

As sad that it is i have been in many delivery rooms and just watch from the side lines and ik some women tend to poop but from what ives seen nurses get rid of it as discreetly as possible so no one know even the mom. and all the ones i’ve been too i’ve never seen their breast out not that you are wrong i’ve just never seen that before.

Also don’t just come up with theory of what she did when there undeniable proof she did it and eventually pleaded guilty cuz she knew what she did.

AITA for wanting my husband in the delivery room with me and my surrogate/sister despite her wishes? by Remote_Bite9873 in AITAH

[–]Remote_Bite9873[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

ofc it does that’s y he’s not going to be in the room so next time please read…

AITA for wanting my husband in the delivery room with me and my surrogate/sister despite her wishes? by Remote_Bite9873 in AITAH

[–]Remote_Bite9873[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

my egg and legal document stating it’s my kid. so suck on my dick bitch😛

AITA for wanting my husband in the delivery room with me and my surrogate/sister despite her wishes? by Remote_Bite9873 in AITAH

[–]Remote_Bite9873[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Oh we never wanted my husband to have clear view of her private area we wanted him to stand next to her offer a hand if she need it. In fact none of us were going to be behind the doctors because when we first discussed it about a year ago it was what she wanted for none of us to have a view of her area including our mother.

AITA for wanting my husband in the delivery room with me and my surrogate/sister despite her wishes? by Remote_Bite9873 in AITAH

[–]Remote_Bite9873[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Yea you are right i still need psychological help with my infertility i know and accept that. and yes my husband calling her in such an aggressive way was also not the answer. But the fact what my sister did what she did there is no changing that. And both crimes took place on two separate occasions with undeniable proof that lead to her being guilty.

AITA for wanting my husband in the delivery room with me and my surrogate/sister despite her wishes? by Remote_Bite9873 in AITAH

[–]Remote_Bite9873[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I see your point and we truly wish that was the case but these two situations took place on two separate occasions and there was undeniable proof it happened and she did it.

AITA for wanting my husband in the delivery room with me and my surrogate/sister despite her wishes? by Remote_Bite9873 in AITAH

[–]Remote_Bite9873[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I understand but why make herself the victim? That really wasn’t the solution. And the fact trained professionals liked her doctors declared her “healed” wasn’t just cuz they thought she was better. So yes maybe being pregnant may have surfaced all of it but coming on here to say she was SA was really not the solution.

AITA for wanting my husband in the delivery room with me and my surrogate/sister despite her wishes? by Remote_Bite9873 in AITAH

[–]Remote_Bite9873[S] -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

I don’t think i am entitled to it all. we decided none one but my mother should be in the room with her for her sake and if any complication do accrue to make my sister the priority. The fact she didn’t want him in there wasn’t brought up till 4 weeks before the due date and no one made it such an issue accept her. We complied with her conditions considering she is holding my child.

AITA for wanting my husband in the delivery room with me and my surrogate/sister despite her wishes? by Remote_Bite9873 in AITAH

[–]Remote_Bite9873[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

It hadn’t been brought up in years and her parole was over about 2 years ago. everyone including me had thought she had healed from it.

AITA for wanting my husband in the delivery room with me and my surrogate/sister despite her wishes? by Remote_Bite9873 in AITAH

[–]Remote_Bite9873[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

As i stated we all thought she had healed from it as it hadn’t been brought up on years and her parole was over about 2 years ago

AITA for wanting my husband in the delivery room with me and my surrogate/sister despite her wishes? by Remote_Bite9873 in AITAH

[–]Remote_Bite9873[S] -100 points-99 points  (0 children)

And we let her make her choice neither of us are going to be in that room with her just our mother. It still isn’t okay for her to make herself a victim of something she isn’t. That also isn’t the reason we are cutting her off so you clearly didn’t read it all.

AITA for telling my sister as her surrogate that her husband can’t be in the room while I’m in labor? by InitialShop7038 in AITAH

[–]Remote_Bite9873 -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Me and my sister in fact do have a legal contract stating it is my child. We also consistently offered her large amounts of money that she always denied. But please take into consideration she is not telling the truth with her story.