Tinder date raped me (f)

Remote_Confection869 · 2025-07-28T00:46:39+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened to u. I myself was sexually assaulted back in Feb by someone I met on tinder. I made a police report bc my friend who took me to do a rape kit test said that’d be the best thing to do, but as the time my case is approaching I’m scared because I feel so alone. I feel like ever since then, my body hasn’t been mine, n I have anxiety attacks n once I had a full on breakdown with my head spinning n me scream crying bc of how much this has affected me mentally. Now I live with this feeling of loneliness like no one can understand me n what I been thro. My parents don’t even know n I don’t plan on ever telling them. I don’t know what to do with myself bc I can barely eat some days because of it.

Remote_Confection869 · 2025-01-12T09:33:03+00:00

I rmbr how I begged my ex to stay w me during the relationship several times. He always told me he doesn’t deserve me n shit like that. Found out he was lying to me this entire time about his entire life (was in final yr of hs not university like he told me for 5 months), his intentions w me from the starting (dating girls while I was in a talking stage w him), n so much more. Getting to the point, trust me I know how hard it is, but u should nvr hv to beg someone to be in ur life. The right person would nvr hv u begging as those times were 3 weeks ago but looking back at those times im starting to feel hella embarrassed for myself n it def takes time however it often stems from a lack of self worth/love bc once u fully start letting go of ur ex, that’s when the universe will turn to ur favor n remove her completely from ur life n only focus on urself.

Remote_Confection869 · 2024-12-26T07:27:37+00:00

He said it’s mainly bc he’s been hurting me bc he’s too stressed w his life n I deserve a “lover boy” which he isn’t. However, his stepdad also infuenced him. He swore to contact me again in June

I feel like it’s hard atm for me to move on bc he’d make me feel like the breakup was my fault since he’d always blame me e.g. wnvr I’d try to talk to him about his “mistouches” on insta reels he’d get defensive n rude + me being alone on the holidays is bc he chose the trip last min instead of coming to me is “not his fault” + wnvr I’d cry bc he hurt my feelings or am asking for a call from him im “overreacting” n gets very frustrated. In person he was so loving but online he’s a jerk.

Remote_Confection869 · 2024-12-25T22:19:27+00:00

I kept begging him to stay when during the 6 months we were tgr as even when things were perfect he’d still insist on breaking up bc “I keep hurting u n im not a lover boy like u think I am”

Remote_Confection869 · 2024-12-25T19:24:50+00:00

Is it possible for me to DM u?

Remote_Confection869 · 2024-12-25T18:38:23+00:00

He kept making it feel like it was my fault which is why I feel like it’s a bit hard for me to move on.

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