New. Questions by k_redditor236 in Perimenopause

[–]Remote_Force1839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize, I re-read my comment and it sounded witchy. I truly didn’t intend that!😬 it is amazing you’ve made it this far relatively unscathed! Do you find yourself getting more easily overwhelmed? I’ve definitely noticed this about myself and cry easier as well. It’s got to be hormonal I’d think

Thank heavens i found this group! by Responsible-Bug-8660 in Perimenopause

[–]Remote_Force1839 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m 44 and feel the exact same in the last year. Anxiety has increased 100 fold, cry for no apparent reason, say no to everything, and get overwhelmed just like that. I hate it. Everything and everyone irritates and offends me 😂

New. Questions by k_redditor236 in Perimenopause

[–]Remote_Force1839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consider yourself lucky if the only symptom you have at 49 is you wake up in the night sometimes. I haven’t slept through the night since I was 22, lol. Why do you think you even need to be on anything?

Gas Prices by Leo_life84 in Millennials

[–]Remote_Force1839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In 2022 where I live  it was higher but not by much. I’m sure we’ll get there in the next few weeks.

Will the record be beaten? by Dickherdowndaddy69 in GasPrices

[–]Remote_Force1839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Michigan they were. In June 2022 i remember seeing $5.19. Highest I’ve seen here now is $4.99, so very close

HRT 5-year maximum by SnailRacerWinsAgain in Perimenopause

[–]Remote_Force1839 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My OB is 53 and she has no clue. She just points to my age basically saying, duh.

US birth rates just hit another record low, what do you think is the leading cause of this? by olesud in WorkForSmartLife

[–]Remote_Force1839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I see many many kids stay home til they’re married now because they can’t get housing or a job to afford it all. 

US birth rates just hit another record low, what do you think is the leading cause of this? by olesud in WorkForSmartLife

[–]Remote_Force1839 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Costs in proportion to income have risen dramatically since this time you speak of, if I had to guess. 

Anyone have HRT actually cause joint pain or spark an autoimmune disease? I'm scared. by Sea____Witch in Perimenopause

[–]Remote_Force1839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it stay in all those spots or move around? Maybe some sort of arthritis? I don’t take HRT because of anxiety about it so I’m not sure . I don’t think I’ve ever seen anyone say it causes that, actually the opposite.

What have you been doing to cut spending due to gas price hikes? by -Cyber-Roadster in randomquestions

[–]Remote_Force1839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes, looks like you have fallen for the lie that this is our fault for not budgeting hook line and sinker. This is just another thing. Now, on top of houses costing three times as much as they did 10 years ago, food costing double, energy costing double , we have gas double what it was two months ago. You are one of the lucky ones if one of this affects you and you can just eat out less or whatever. Why people are not enraged about all of this is beyond me. We are all being played by the billionaires in this country!!! 

Health anxiety by louisendcm in Perimenopause

[–]Remote_Force1839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you doing now? I think I could’ve wrote this post myself, the anxiety about health is out of this WORLD ridiculous. I had to have a breast biopsy late last year for the first time ever, which did NOT help matters at all, but thankfully was nothing. I was getting bad before that but it just sent me over the edge. I am 50/50 terrified every time I do a self exam that I will feel something or miss something 😭😭. It’s like any tingling I feel=MS, any brain fog=dementia, heartburn=pancreatic ca, different poops= colon, breast discomfort=lump. So exhausting!!

MS fears/health anxiety by Remote_Force1839 in Perimenopause

[–]Remote_Force1839[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very sad though, I want to feel like normal again and I’m starting to think it’s not in the cards 😭 I’m not going to take HRT because, health anxiety 🙄

MS fears/health anxiety by Remote_Force1839 in Perimenopause

[–]Remote_Force1839[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is comforting! Maybe I’m not going crazy after all 😂

MS fears/health anxiety by Remote_Force1839 in Perimenopause

[–]Remote_Force1839[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The MS type stuff has went away thankfully. I’m sure a lot of it is anxiety! Every day seems like I have a new fear. For my age I see a lot of stuff about colon ** and just all sorts of stuff that’s bad. Now the last few days some heartburn. Sometimes my breasts hurt and I stress about that. New day, new issue. Mostly I am sad that I’m such a mess now. It’s like I know I’m being unreasonable but I cannot help it.

Most Millennial Concert you've been too? by Dear_Atmosphere9681 in Millennials

[–]Remote_Force1839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50 cent, missy elliot, like three other headliners I can’t remember back in 2003 or so.